Maid of Honor
Because of random seating in the Soprano section of chorus, 2 girls not paying attention to the director, and a (on pitch) public mistake- Healey and Sam became fast friends! They have been through everything together, getting driver's licenses, heartbreaks, college, getting pets, and moving out of Lancaster County (and across the whole country!). Even being states away, their friendship continues to grow through pictures and calls about their lives- even if Healey's is way cooler that Sam's most of the time! When they do see each other, there are sleepovers, late night gab sessions, wine, charcuterie, and pizza (just like when they were 14- minus the wine) Healey is the best friend, cat aunt, and sister that anyone could ask for.
Best Man
Allan and John first met on the football field during their freshman year of high school, though their lifelong bond didn’t truly take root until they landed in the same Spanish class later that year. In a strategic move, their teacher decided that the student who couldn't stop talking should be seated next to the one who never spoke a word. She likely hoped for a bit of quiet, but instead, she sparked a friendship that has spanned fifteen years. They have been there for one another through every milestone of adolescence and adulthood, supporting each other as they navigated the challenges of growing up. Now, as they prepare to take the next big steps in their lives, they remain exactly where they started: right by each other’s side.
Maid of Honor
Quidditch brings everyone together! Thank goodness for Zac making them both try Quidditch because they needed more girls- Sam and Becca met on the field and became friends through their love of tackling people, talking shit, saying how good of Shortie's bouncers they could be, and dancing to frat music. Their friendship happened so naturally and quickly that once they started hanging out, that was it! Even with miles in between the two- Becca keeps showing up for Sam in every way, which means the absolute world to her. You can still catch them on the dance floor at any party (still dancing like their 21 instead of almost 30), hanging out and talking about everything and nothing, and playing Dungeons and Dragons with their friends. Becca is someone everyone should want in their corner and one of the sweetest and most loyal best friends Sam could ask for!
Best Man
Tom and John both moved to Southampton around the same time, first crossing paths on the playground of Jolly Tots. At the time, they had no way of knowing just how close they would eventually become. They soon discovered they lived only two blocks apart, a realization that turned them into near-constant companions. Their friendship was forged in the classic traditions of suburban summers: long days and late nights at Maplewood Swim Club, competitive whiffle ball games in the backyard, and endless hours locked in heated battles over sports video games. They have spent a lifetime laughing through the small moments and the big milestones alike. While the passing years mean those free hours have naturally dwindled, the strength of their bond has remained unchanged. They have grown up, but they haven't grown apart.
Bridesmaid
Brianna is the middle sister in the Reitnauer girl lineup. She is Sam's biggest voice of reason and honestly like a second mom in some ways. They always got along growing up but got super close once Bri went to college. Bri continues to be an inspiration with her commitment to everything she does and how strong she is not matter what life throws at her. Sam can not believe the beautiful woman her sister has become and can not imagine Bri not being up there with her on this big day! She is not only a little sister, but one of Sam's closest friends.
Groomsman
Ryan is the "older" of the twin Loughlin brothers, Ryan stepped into the role of the de facto middle child—a mantle he has always held with a certain sense of pride. Growing up, he and John were famous for butting heads, largely because Ryan took great joy in being a "nudge," as their mother would lovingly put it. However, as the years passed and the sibling rivalry settled, they began to recognize just how much they actually had in common. That childhood friction eventually gave way to a deep, intentional friendship. Ryan is defined by a fierce sense of loyalty; he is the kind of person who is protective to his core, and once he is in your corner, he will support and defend you to the very end. John counts himself lucky to have that level of devotion behind him, and he remains just as committed to staying in Ryan’s corner for the long haul.
Bridesmaid
Delaney is the baby of the Reitnauer siblings. Delaney went from being the typical "little sister" to one of Sam's closest friends. They went from playing school in their living room, to both being teachers now. Delaney will forever be Sam's little "Bug" and she can not believe her baby sister has grown into someone so amazing and beautiful. She fiercely goes for whatever she wants in life- which is amazing to watch. Sam regrets crying when mom told her she was a boy because Laney is the most perfect littlest sister that anyone could have asked for.
Groomsman
Being the youngest of the Loughlin brothers never slowed Kevin down, but as he has matured, the "baby brother" label hasn't quite stuck. Over the years, he has evolved into one of John’s closest friends and a constant, steady presence in his life. Kevin’s energy is defined by a contagious laugh and a unique kindness; he’s the person who is always there to make sure your joke lands, ensuring no one ever feels unheard. Watching him grow, John couldn't be prouder of the man Kevin has become. It is a privilege for John to not only call him a brother but to count him as a true friend as they navigate the future together.
Bridesmaid
Who said your future cousin-in-law can't also become one of your closest friends? Steph and Sam met through family gatherings and got along super quickly. Both went to John after an event or two and told him, they want to become friends! And the friendship has only grown from there! You can find Steph and Sam going out to brunch, crafting the day away, talking about their dragon books, trying new workout classes, or Sam taking Steph out for drinks and returning home loud and giggly! Steph is also John's cousin but really, she's more like the little sister he never had!
Groomsman
John and Bryant first met during their freshman year of college, living just a few doors apart on the same dorm floor. They bonded almost instantly over their shared love of sports, a connection that eventually led them to the Quidditch pitch. As teammates, they both stepped into leadership roles, spending countless hours designing plays and pushing one another to improve. Although they naturally drifted apart for a time after graduation, their friendship picked up exactly where it left off when Sam and John began dating. Since then, the years apart have felt like a distant memory, and Bryant has cemented his place as one of John’s closest and most trusted friends.
Bridesmaid
From running around Girl Scout Day Camp to Rachel falling in love and marrying Sam's brother. Sam and Rachel may not have started out super close, but they has been their through many stages of each others lives and is the best sister-in-law and friend that Sam could ask for. They now can be found playing board games with their family, laughing over dumb memes and memories, and playing endless hours of Dungeons and Dragons in various campaigns! (Just as long as Zac doesn't kill them in the game) You're beautiful Rachel!
Groomsman
While Brian and John are technically cousins, the way they grew up made them feel much more like brothers. Over the years, that childhood bond has matured into a deep, lasting friendship. They found plenty of common ground through their shared loyalty to Philadelphia sports and their time at Kutztown University, two passions that have given them endless reasons to stay connected. Through every high and low, they have remained a constant source of support for one another, and today, they are closer than ever.
Bridesmaid
Haley is the second half of the red heads of Manayunk! (Haley's is real #fakeredhead) Haley started dating (and now MARRIED TO) Sam's brother's freshman year roommate but they were not friends yet. They became friends after both couples moved to Manayunk years later and started double dating pretty frequently. Sam and Haley have monthly wine nights while the boys play poker, enjoy Manayunk restaurants, and watching Sunday football. Making friends as an adult is hard, so it makes the friendship with Haley even more special.
Groomsman
While Kevin and John first met during their freshman year of college, that was really just the prologue to their story. The friendship they share today didn't truly ignite until they both moved to Manayunk and found themselves just a five-minute drive apart. From monthly poker nights and catching games to exploring the local scene on Main Street, through these moments, they grew from former college peers into true, lifelong friends. Now, their journey comes full circle: just as John had the honor of standing as a groomsman in Kevin’s wedding, Kevin is now standing right there by John’s side as he takes this next step.
Flower Girl
Our cat Calypso will not be in attendance, but is the honorary flower girl!
Ring Bearer
Our cat Adonis will not be in attendance, but is the honorary ring bearer!
Mother of the Bride
Mother of the Groom
Father of the Bride
Father of the Groom
Officiant
This officiant is hard to miss! Zac is Sam's "little" brother and one of her best friends. They did everything together- playing outside, making up new games, mud kitchens, matchbox cars, movie nights, plays, musicals, and even going to Kutztown! Which is where John and Zac were on the same freshman floor but were not close friends until after college. John, Sam, and Zac were all on the same Quidditch team as well. Zac is sort of responsible for this relationship, since he is the one that got both John and Sam to play! Now their time together consists of playing board games, hanging out with their big group of friends, and Sam, Zac, and Rachel annoying John with tons of Dungeons and Dragons talk!