FAQs
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Will I have to pay for parking?
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No.
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What time should I arrive?
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In marching band, early is on time, and on time is late. Ideally, you should arrive between 3:40 and 3:55. The ceremony will start at 4 p.m.
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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
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James: "Dress code is 'this is a wedding.' Our guests have been to a wedding. They know." Jenny: "Whimsical grassland gathering? Prairie coastline?" Reality: Dressy casual to cocktail. We just want you to be comfortable and have fun.
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Are kids welcome?
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Please be advised that the event may contain mature content, including strong language and adult themes. We just wanted to get that down in writing. Your kids are absolutely welcome, but we can't promise Jenny won't swear in her toast. There will be some very cool 'regular mac and cheese' just for kiddos who have some food aversions, lots of dancing, and sugar. We encourage you to do whatever is feasible for your family that also allows you to have fun because that's our priority for the day!
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Can I bring an extra plus one (or two)?
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We'd be lying if we said we've never crashed a wedding. We have one rule: We want to ensure our invited and RSVP-ed guests get the food we planned for them. If your plus-one eats beforehand or brings a purse snack AND promises not to eat James' extra cupcakes, then you should absolutely bring them along. Bonus guests will be asked to leave if they start drama, spill anything on the bridal party, or request the Chicken Dance.
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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May 24. If we haven't heard from you by then, expect us to start pestering you for a solid answer. We won't be offended if you can't come. We'd much rather you just let us know.
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How do I get to the venue?
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Because I do not know which direction you're starting from, this includes cardinal directions. I'm sorry to about half of you. For those of you who want the clear, straightforward, boring directions, keep scrolling. Okay, so you're on Minnesota Avenue. Just, like, driving. Listening to the radio. Hyping yourself up for the next few hours of people-ing. You're gonna turn East onto 273rd Street. Yes, the number is big. Calm down, you're not that far from Sioux Falls. Now, this is where it gets a little tricky. Keep your eyes peeled on the NORTH side. There's a house, and immediately after that house, there’s a turn, also on the NORTH side. Look for pink and green balloons. If you see them, that's your "oh good" moment. Turn there. If you drive past it and end up at a brown barn, turn around. Go WEST on 273rd Street and turn NORTH at the pink and green balloons. On this small road, you will pass a giant brown barn. It's not us. We don't have that many friends. Keep driving. Your only other option at this point is to drive along the road to the venue or into the apple orchard. Do not destroy the apple trees. We will invoice you. Your actual destination is a cute, white barn. Think "Pinterest wedding," not "farm equipment." That’s The Veranda. Park in one of the 83 spots. Yes, 83. We're prepared. You made it! Now go have fun. ----------- Alright, here are the super clear and simple directions to The Veranda: Go south on Minnesota Avenue. Turn east onto 273rd Street. After a house on the north side of 273rd Street, turn north. Look for pink and green balloons at the turn. Drive past a brown barn. The Veranda is a white barn. Park in the parking lot. Address: 1694 Willow Street West, Harrisburg, SD 571032.
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What if I have a dietary restriction?
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Most of our guest list is over 30, so we pretty much assume you have at least one. Please let Jenny know or note in your RSVP, and we will do our very best to accommodate.
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Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
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Yes! There are no stairs at the venue, and the bathrooms have accessible stalls.