FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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September 13, 2019

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony is set to begin at 5:00 p.m. We recommend arriving ten minutes early so you have time to select a seat and grab a glass of prosecco to sip on during the ceremony. There will be complimentary valet parking so you will not need to worry about finding a parking spot.

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What should I wear?

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Cocktail attire, or whatever your typical wedding attire is - this is not a black tie event.

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Can I bring a date?

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Yes.

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Are kids welcome?

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Unfortunately, due to occupancy constraints both the ceremony and reception will be adults-only.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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YES. A block of rooms has been reserved at the Hotel Indigo. It was newly constructed in 2018 and boasts an excellent rooftop bar and a great location, within walking distance to many great bars and restaurants including Elgin Park (where the casual rehearsal dinner will take place). To take advantage of the group rate, please use the link below when making reservations: https://www.hotelindigo.com/redirect?path=asearch&brandCode=IN&localeCode=en&regionCode=1&hotelCode=TULID&checkInDate=11&checkInMonthYear=092019&checkOutDate=13&checkOutMonthYear=092019&rateCode=6CBARC&_PMID=99801505&GPC=STE&viewfullsite=true Other great options include: Tulsa Club Hotel, the Mayo Hotel, and the Ambassador

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Will there be assigned seating during the reception?

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No. While there will be reserved seating for the wedding party and immediate family members in the main living room of the mansion, the floor plan at the Dresser is best suited for a relaxed, rotating reception. In lieu of a formal seated dinner, there will be a buffet of heavy hors d'ouevres available and the couple invites you to explore the courtyard and various rooms in the mansion.

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When will dinner be served?

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The ceremony should wrap up by 5:30 p.m., at which time a cocktail hour will commence with an open bar and passed canapes. In lieu of a formal seated dinner, dinner will consist of an eclectic buffet of heavy hors d'oeuvres which will open up to the guests shortly after the couple completes their first dance and is seated. (Approx. 6:30 p.m.)