FAQs

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What Time Should I Be There?

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Please arrive at the venue by 5:00pm. The ceremony will start promptly at 5:30pm

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What Is The Dress Code?

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Semi-Formal/Dressy Casual

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Is There a Shuttle?

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Yes, shuttle to venue from hotel is at 4:45PM. Return shuttle from venue to the hotel is at 11:30PM

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What Can I Expect To See at a Jewish Wedding?

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Kippah (pronounced kee-pah)- A kippah or yarmulke is a brimless cap, usually made of cloth, traditionally worn by males to fulfill the customary requirement that the head should be covered. The tradition of wearing a kippah is to remind us that there is a greater power “above” us who watches our every act. Chuppah-The wedding ceremony takes place under the chuppah (canopy), a symbol of the home that the new couple will build together. Circling- The bride traditionally circles around her groom either three or seven times under the Chuppah. Some people believe this is to create a magical wall of protection from evil spirits, temptation, and the glances of other women. Others believe the bride is symbolically creating a new family circle. Giving of the Ring- In Jewish law, a marriage becomes official when an object of value is given to the bride. This is traditionally done with a ring made of plain gold, without blemishes or ornamentation (e.g. stones) ― just as it is hoped that the marriage will be one of simple beauty. Ketubah (Marriage Contract)-The document is signed by two witnesses, and has the standing of a legally binding agreement. Breaking the Glass-This serves as an expression of sadness at the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, and identifies the couple with the spiritual and national destiny of the Jewish people. The Hora- The hora is a traditional dance performed at Jewish weddings where the newlyweds are lifted into the air while their family and friends dance in circles around them. During the hora, the couple each holds one end of a handkerchief or napkin to signify their union.

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Are Kids Invited?

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Due to limited numbers, we hope you understand that children are only invited if named. Your invitation will be made out to "The ( Your Last Name) Family" if your children have been invited and "Mr. & Mrs." if only you and your significant other have been invited.

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Can I Bring a Guest/Date?

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We unfortunately cannot accommodate additional guests. Due to limited capacity, we can only allow the people named on your invitation. Your invitation will be made out to "(Your Name)" & Guest if a plus one has been given to you.

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What’s for Dinner?

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We will be paying homage to our family restaurants Lerner’s Red Hots and the Milk Pail by having Poochie’s Hot Dogs cater our big day. Instead of a traditional, seated 3-course meal, Poochie’s will be grilling up Chicago style fan fair such as Char dogs, burgers, Polish, grilled chicken, veggie burgers, French fries, and more! The grill will open and unlimited to guests during the duration of dinner service.

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When Should I RSVP By?

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May 12, 2023

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Do You Have a Hotel Block for Guests?

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Yes, please check the travel tab for information about the Sonesta Suites

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Is There Parking?

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Yes, there is a large parking lot attached to the venue. For those driving, the easiest route to the venue is to take I-90 toward Rockford then exit 58 toward Beverly Rd. Turn left onto IL-72 and then right onto Water St. The Venue will be on your righthand side with plenty of parking available in the back. Our wedding will take place on the Two-Sixty side.

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I have a question that I just can’t find the answer to, what is the best way to contact you?

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You may ask us any question by emailing lblerne@gmail.com