FAQs
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When should I RSVP?
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We ask that you RSVP as soon as you possibly can so we can organize with our vendors. However, the deadline is August 10th, 2026.
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What if I can’t make it?
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Your presence will be missed. We ask that you RSVP “No” as soon as you can. If you have already RSVP’d “Yes”, but find that you cannot make it please notify the bride at (757)876-9036 as soon as possible.
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What if I didn’t RSVP in time?
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If we do not receive a RSVP by the date provided above, it will automatically be marked “No”. We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative that we provide our vendors with a final guest count within a timely manner. Thank you for understanding!
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What time should I arrive?
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Please arrive 30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time. This way you can find parking, visit our welcome table, and find your seat.
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Where do I park?
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The venue is off of Main Street but parking for the wedding is right next to the venue on Smith Street. There will be signs marking the parking area for when you arrive.
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Is there a dress code?
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Formal cocktail attire- polished and elegant. For women, think a nice midi or maxi dress or a pantsuit option. For men, suits are an appropriate option. Aiming for refined but not uncomfortable to celebrate in!
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask the Ladies to refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne, or cream colored attire.
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What colors are the wedding party wearing?
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The bridesmaids will be in a variation of muted fall colors such as, rust, terracotta, burgundy, etc. The groomsmen will be wearing a combination of Coast Guard dress blues and navy suits.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited space we are not allotting plus ones, only guest formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. All names that are invited will be under your household when you RSVP.
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Are kids invited?
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We love your kiddos, but we are having a child free wedding with the exception of those in the wedding party. Please think of this as a child free date night, or for those coming from out of town we apologize for any inconvenience this causes.
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Where should I stay?
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Firstly, thank you so much for traveling the distance to celebrate with us! We have provided a list of accommodations from rentals in the area to the hotel which we have a block on for this occasion under the travel tab on this website. You do not have to choose the ones we have listed, but we hope it helps in your search.
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What are my dinner options?
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We are having a buffet style dinner with chopped brisket, pulled pork, and pulled chicken as the mains. The sides will be sweet potatoes, Mac and cheese, and sautéed seasonal vegetables along with slider rolls or corn bread.
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Will there be an open bar?
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No, we will be providing a beer and wine selection along with 2 signature drinks.
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Can I take photos or videos during the wedding ceremony?
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Short Answer, NO! We will be having a phone free ceremony, we have hired an amazing photographer to capture the moment for us. We would like to have you fully present and also would not like to have cell phones in the way of our wedding photos. Feel free to take as many photos before and or after the ceremony as you wish!
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Which airport should we fly into?
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If you are choosing to fly instead of drive from out of state we cannot recommend more that you fly into Richmond airport or Newport News/Williamsburg airport. If you do fly into Norfolk be prepared to cross the bridge tunnels and endure severe traffic due to the shipyard and road work. I apologize in advance for Virginia residents driving.