FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP by December 13th, 2025–but honestly? Sooner is better. We know it's the season of holiday parties, travel plans, and accidentally ignoring emails, so save us from chasing you down between bites of gingerbread. Help us out and reply early. Your future seat (and meal) depends on it.

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What happens if I forget to RSVP?

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We'll light a candle, whisper your name into the void, and assume you didn't make it through the RSVP portal. No RSVP = no seat, no meal, no cake. A tragedy, really.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Only if your invitation says so. If it doesn’t, it’s just you superstar. We love you—solo.

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Is there a dress code?

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All black, and by all black we mean the absence of all other colors. Not midnight blue, not dark grey, not sort of black. If you show up in anything white, we will assume you’re confused about whose wedding this is. If you want inspiration or are still unsure, consult the pinterest board: https://pin.it/3kPBxeEDI

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Are children welcome?

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This is an adult-only event. We figured you’d rather enjoy a classy cocktail than mediate a meltdown over the lack of chicken nuggets.

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Is there parking?

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Yep! Lot D, a former Methodist Church lot, is all yours. It’s located off the cross streets of E Coronado Rd and N Alvarado Rd. No need to pray for street parking—we’ve got you covered.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, there's an open bar. Stay hydrated—but, like, the fun kind of hydrated.

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What if I have dietary restrictions?

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No problem–just make sure to note them on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. Silent suffering at the reception is not the vibe.

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Can we ask the DJ for song requests?

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Sorry, but no. This party runs on a pre-approved soundtrack. The DJ answers only to her. Even if you slip him a $20, he’s been trained to say, “She’ll kill me.”