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May 31, 2026
New York, NY
#TheEldests

Michelle & Andrew

FAQs

Question

I have pictures with/of the couple, who can I share them with?

Answer

Somebody was kind enough to send us an Aura digital frame, and we've been filling it with pictures of our time together. We'd love to see any pictures you might have of us, or of yourselves with us, that we could add to it as well. Please email your photos to: theeldests+pics@modansky.family

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

Cocktail attire, please! The groom will be in a suit, not a tuxedo.

Question

Are children invited to the wedding?

Answer

With the exception of our adorable nieces and nephews, no.

Question

Will Apollo be participating in the nuptials?

Answer

We love our grumpy little piss artist, but he gets anxious around large groups, so he will be staying home in the comfort of his various blanket nests.

Question

Do you really want LEGOs?

Answer

We do! We truly enjoy the time we spend building together, and love the way they add color to the apartment. We've already built several Botanical sets and the Mona Lisa.

Question

I got an invitation to the Engagement Party, does that mean I'll be invited to the wedding?

Answer

We are both blessed with very large families. As a result, we will be unable to include everyone we would have liked in our wedding festivities. Whatever our relation, we hope you will join us as we celebrate our engagement. Please don't feel compelled to give a gift – your presence is what matters to us!