Frequently Asked Questions

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation states "& Guest" then yes!

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Can I bring my children?

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The name of each invited party is stated on your invitation. If your invitation says "and Family" then please feel free to bring the kiddos, if you choose. If not, kick your shoes off and enjoy a relaxing kid-free evening with us!

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What should I wear?

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Semi-formal: dark suit and tie and formal cocktail attire Please note: Our wedding ceremony will take place in a Catholic Church, and our reception will take place indoors. All festivities will take place indoors, but Oklahoma weather can be fickle. Please prepare for rain or shine.

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What do you recommend to do in the area?

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Check out our "Things to Do" tab

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at least 10-15 minutes before the ceremony start time. The reception will begin immediately following the ceremony.

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What is a Nuptial Mass?

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The Nuptial Mass is the Catholic marriage service. In the Catholic Church, Holy Matrimony is one of the Seven Sacraments. Marriages are occasions of great joy and solemnity, and we invite you to witness and celebrate with us as we are joined together in this sacred and lifelong union. The Mass will be said in Latin and will last about one hour and a half. Literature will be provided to assist you in following along with the Mass and marriage ceremony, or, please join in quiet prayer and contemplation. We are so pleased that you are here with us.

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Help! I Need Detailed Driving Directions from the Cathedral to the Reception Venue

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FROM THE CATHEDRAL Head West on NW 32nd street toward N Classen Blvd Turn right onto N classen Blvd Use the left 2 lanes to turn left onto NW 39th St Use the right 2 lanes to turn right onto N Pennsylvania Ave Turn left onto E Frontage Rd/W I 44 Service Road Use the left lane to Merge onto I-44 Take the exit onto OK-3 W/OK-74 N/Lake Hefner Pkwy Keep right to merge onto OK-74 N/Lake Hefner Pkwy (9.2 mi) OK-74 N /Lake Hefner Pkwy turns into N Portland Ave Take OK-74 N/ N Portland Ave to Coffee Creek Road Turn Left onto Coffee Creek Road The Manor is the first driveway on the left