We met on a popular dating site called match.com. Cal pursued and I was hesitant, but we decided to meet at The Brigantine in Del Mar. I had 45 minutes after work before I needed to pick up the boys from my parents. I was not date ready, in my work jeans, tshirt and barely any makeup. Still I made enough of an impression for Cal to ask me out before the date was over. (Yes!) And thus went our dating history. Always plenty of conversation (if you know Cal), and always the date ended with him asking to see me again. He was definitely on it!!