FAQs
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00pm, so please arrive as close to 3:30pm as possible. Note: If you do not arrive prior to the processionals beginning, you will NOT be permitted to enter the ceremony. No one will be allowed in after the ceremony has begun. Please be respectful of our time on our most special day and arrive timely. We appreciate you in advance for being considerate of this request!
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What’s the dress code?
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We would love our friends and family to get dressed up with us! We ask that our guests celebrate with us in cocktail/semi-formal style. Examples of this are: midi (knee length or tea length) or floor length dresses for women, and dress shirt with tie or bow tie and dress pants (jacket optional) for men. No jeans are permitted. It will be an indoor/outdoor event, so please dress for the weather. We invite you to take color cues from fall color palettes - please avoid orange (if you know, you know) - exception: burnt orange IS permissible. Please avoid any shades of white/ivory/champagne out of respect for the bride.
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When should I RSVP?
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RSVPs are due August 18, 2025 - exactly 2 months before the big day! Please let us know by then if you’re able to join our celebration!
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Is there an open bar?
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Yes! We’re serving an open bar, fully free to our guests with signature drinks offered as well. Please just be responsible and know your limits so you can enjoy the night with us!
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Can I bring a guest/date/plus one?
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We are only able to accommodate the guests formally invited on your invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Due to limited capacity, we can only allow the people named on your invitation.
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Are kids invited/can I bring mine?
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We would love if all the little ones could join; however, we’ve got lots of kids in the immediate family already, so the only kids allowed will be those who were named on your invitations. Otherwise, please use a babysitter and join us as a date night out!
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How will the timeline of events flow?
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The events of the day will all occur at one location. The ceremony will begin outdoors at 4pm, followed by a cocktail hour under the covered pavilion patio, ending with the reception in Hydrangea Hall. The event will conclude at 10:00pm. The dancing will cater towards younger taste as the night progresses. Feel free to stay and celebrate with us until 10pm, or leave earlier if needed.
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Will there be a sit down dinner?
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There will be a cocktail hour appetizers, followed by a full dinner buffet (including 3 proteins), as well as dessert and late night bites. The kids invited will be sat in a kids loft with their own buffet of kid-friendly food provided by the caterer. Any food allergies/accommodations should be noted in your RSVP.
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Is there parking?
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Yes, there’s a very spacious parking area at the venue where all the events of the day are taking place. Cars can be left there overnight if needed, to be picked up the next morning if it’s not safe for you to drive. Please be wise after drinking alcohol.
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Is smoking allowed on property?
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No drugs are tolerated at this venue. Any individuals found smoking on property will be escorted off premises. Please do not bring anything onto the property - a full bar of liquor, beer, wine and seltzers will be provided by the bride and groom for your enjoyment.
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Are there travel or lodging accommodations?
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If you’re traveling for our wedding, we probably already reached out to you regarding accommodations. If not, we’ve posted details regarding hotel blocks and transportation options on the ‘Travel’ page!
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What do I do if I can’t make it anymore?
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You’ll be missed! Please let us know as soon as possible if you find that this is the case. We’ll be posting pictures you can see later on, and we can make plans to celebrate individually in the future!
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If I have additional questions, who should I contact?
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The bride, La, can be best reached via text at 336-964-0018, or Dre at 336-602-4447 (please introduce yourself if texting with a question). However, if it is wedding week and you find yourself with questions, we ask that you check this website first, as it likely contains your answers. The bride and groom are getting ready to celebrate, so please only reach out if absolutely necessary. On the day of, we have a lovely coordinator Danielle who can be reached on property with anything you may need.
