Anand Karaj is a Sikh marriage ceremony that holds deep significance in Sikhism. It is a sacred and joyous union between two individuals, emphasizing the spiritual and equal partnership. The ceremony takes place in a Gurdwara, the Sikh place of worship, and is conducted by a Granthi (a Sikh religious leader). Anand Karaj involves the recitation of hymns and prayers from the Guru Granth Sahib, the holy scripture of Sikhism, symbolizing the divine presence in the union. The central theme revolves around the principles of equality, humility, and devotion, reflecting the Sikh values of oneness and harmony. The ceremony is a solemn commitment to a lifelong partnership, with an emphasis on shared responsibilities and mutual respect.
A Gurdwara is a place of worship for Sikhs, the followers of Sikhism. The word "Gurdwara" translates to "Gateway to the Guru," emphasizing its role as a spiritual and communal center. In a Gurdwara, Sikhs come together for congregational prayers, meditation, and to listen to the teachings from the Guru Granth Sahib, the holy scripture of Sikhism. Gurdwaras are open to people of all faiths and backgrounds, embodying the Sikh principles of equality, humility, and community service. They typically have a distinctive architectural style, with a central prayer hall, a platform for the Guru Granth Sahib, and facilities for community meals, known as Langar, which are often provided free of charge to visitors as a symbol of hospitality and equality. Gurdwaras play a crucial role in fostering a sense of unity, spirituality, and service within the Sikh community.
A Sikh wedding ceremony, Anand Karaj, unfolds in the sacred space of a Gurdwara, encompassing several key components. It begins with Milni, where the families meet and exchange greetings. The ceremony features Laavan Pheras, during which the couple takes four clockwise rounds around the Guru Granth Sahib, symbolizing their spiritual union. The Granthi recites hymns and verses from the holy scripture, emphasizing the sanctity of marriage. Anand Sahib, a hymn expressing joy, is recited, and in some ceremonies, a sacred fire (havan) is lit. The ceremony concludes with Ardaas and blessings, followed by the distribution of Karah Prasad to symbolize shared blessings. This comprehensive ritual underscores the core Sikh values of equality, joy, and the divine nature of marital unity. During the ceremony, men and women will sit on opposite sides of the prayer hall. With the exception of guests with mobility limitations or older guests, all guests are seated on the floor with their legs crossed throughout the ceremony.
When visiting a Gurdwara, it is customary to dress modestly and respectfully. For both men and women, clothing that covers the shoulders and knees is considered appropriate. Many visitors choose to wear traditional or semi-formal attire, such as salwar kameez for women and a kurta-pajama or trousers with a shirt for men. Additionally, it is essential to cover the head as a sign of respect. Women often wear a scarf or shawl, while men may wear a turban or a head-covering provided at the Gurdwara. Removing shoes before entering the prayer hall is also a common practice, emphasizing the sacred nature of the space. Overall, the key is to choose attire that reflects modesty, cultural sensitivity, and a respectful approach to the religious environment of the Gurdwara.
As a guest at a Sikh wedding, it is customary to observe certain expectations to contribute to the respectful and inclusive atmosphere. Dressing modestly and respectfully in vibrant, traditional attire is encouraged, with a head covering, such as a headscarf, being a common practice (these will be provided!). Upon entering the Gurdwara, guests should follow the established protocols, including removing shoes before entering the prayer hall and maintaining a quiet and respectful demeanor during the sacred ceremony. Participation in the joyous aspects of the event, such as offering best wishes, joining in the Ardaas prayer, and receiving Karah Prasad, is often welcomed. Additionally, guests are invited to partake in the communal dining experience of the Langar, a vegetarian meal that symbolizes equality and community spirit. By embracing these customs, guests enhance the overall experience of the Sikh wedding celebration.
Children are welcome to attend the Anand Karaj! However, for the reception held at the Telus World of Science, only children over the age of 18 are invited to attend. This will be clear to you on the RSVP page.
The Telus World of Science does not have designated free parking, but a large parking lot is located in front of the building. The cost of parking from 5pm until 2am is $9. There is also some street parking available in the area around Science World, but we advise using the parking lot out front. Science World is also located across from the Main Street-Science World skytrain station, which houses the Expo Line train that runs from Downtown Vancouver to Surrey. There are also plenty of ride share options available, such as taxis, Uber and Lyft. Please ensure you have a safe ride home.
Due to logistical constraints and our desire to keep our guest-list restricted to those we feel closest to, we are not allowing additional guests. The RSVP page will clearly state who is included in the invitation. Thank you for respecting this decision!
We recognize the amount of time and effort you are all putting in to attend our wedding, and your presence is the greatest gift! Please know that there is no expectation to bring a gift. If you choose to provide a gift, we have opted to set up a Honeyfund! Honeyfund is an online wedding registry that allows couples to create a personalized list of experiences and activities, such as honeymoon adventures or special events, where guests can contribute funds instead of traditional gifts. The link to our Honeyfund is provided in the "Registry" tab on our website.
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The Gurdwara is located in New Westminster, a suburb of Vancouver. There is ample parking available at the Gurdwara and in the neighborhood surrounding it. This location is most accessible by driving. However, the 22nd Street skytrain station is close by, which services the Expo Line train that runs between Downtown Vancouver and Surrey. There is an option to take this train and take a taxi/Uber/Lyft the remaining 5 minutes to the Gurdwara.
The deadline is indicated on the RSVP page. We ask you to please submit your RSVP by JANUARY 21st 2024. Reminders will be given.
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