3:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Come play lawn games and have a drink when you arrive!
6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Casual! Wear jeans and a sweater, a casual dress - or whatever is comfortable.
Help us kick off the wedding weekend at a favorite Cape Cod brewery! We have shuttles from Chatham Bars Inn to the Hog Island brewery and back. Please sign up below. There is plenty of parking if you prefer to make the 15 minute drive. Between our two families, there are 35 kids under age 11. While we would prefer this event to be adults only, we understand it may be tricky to get childcare for two nights, especially if you're traveling from far away. We have linked a recommended babysitting site to FAQ and are here to answer any questions you may have! Speeches start at 7pm. Last call is at 8:45.
Sat, Oct 18, 2025, 4:30 pm - Sun, Oct 19, 2025, 12:00 am
Black-Tie. The groom and men in the immediate families will be in tuxedos. We understand that tuxedo logistics can be a headache, so we ask that you wear a dark suit if you prefer. We suggest long dresses for women.
The ceremony will be held on grass, overlooking the beach, weather permitting. Temperatures are typically in the low 60s, so please bring a layer to stay warm and cozy. Cocktails, dinner, and dancing will all take place indoors. This event is adults-only. We will have a valet to shuttle around Chatham at the end of the night.
9:00 am - 11:00 am
Come as you are
Come grab a quick bite and say goodbye before hitting the road