FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

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We’re going digital! Please RSVP online by March 1, 2025. If we don’t hear from you by then, we’ll have to mark you as a “no” to finalize numbers for our vendors. While we’d absolutely love to have you there, we need to keep things locked in—so don’t miss out, let us know if you’ll be there!

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What’s the dress code?

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We’re keeping it sleek and chic: think black tie optional. All our guests will be dressed in black, so channel your inner classic glam! (Bonus points for long gowns and suits). We want everyone looking sharp but still comfortable enough to enjoy the evening. Feel free to accessorize with your favorite colors.

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Is the wedding indoor or outdoor?

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It’s an outdoor celebration -- both the ceremony and reception will take place outdoors. One of the venues is a beautiful tented space located on Lake Lanier itself, offering stunning views. While early September in Georgia is typically warm, evenings can get cooler, so we recommend checking the weather forecast closer to the date and dressing accordingly for comfort.

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What time should I arrive?

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Be fashionably on time! Arrivals are from 5:15 to 5:45 pm. We’ll start the ceremony at 6 pm sharp, so you don’t want to be caught rushing in with your shoes half-on.

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Are plus-ones invited?

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We love the idea of you bringing your special someone, but please check your invitation to see if a +1 is included. We kept it intimate, so we had to make some tough calls—only if your invite says so!

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Can I bring the kiddos?

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As much as we love your little ones, this night is all about grown-up fun! Unless they’re on the invite or part of the bridal party, we kindly ask you to enjoy this evening with us (and book that babysitter for some well-deserved adult time!).

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Where can I park?

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Yes, parking will be complimentary at Lanier Islands Resort for all guests. For your convenience, there will be designated parking available at both the ceremony and reception venues.

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Will there be food and drinks?

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Oh, you bet! We’ve planned a delicious dinner, dessert, and drinks all night long. Plus, there will be a cocktail hour with light appetizers to keep you fueled for fun from start to finish. Get ready for a menu that’s as memorable as the night itself.

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What if I have a dietary restriction?

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We want everyone to enjoy the food! If you have any dietary restrictions, please reach out to the bride ASAP to let us know, and we’ll make sure you’re well taken care of.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Absolutely! We’re setting up a specialty bar that will be open following the ceremony. So whether you’re into signature cocktails or a classic drink, we’ve got you covered for a night full of toasts and cheers!

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Can we take photos at the wedding?

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Yes, please do! We’d love for you to capture all the fun moments. Just a small request: please refrain from getting in the photographer’s way during the ceremony. Afterward, join in the fun with our photo scavenger hunt for some unique snaps and a fun prize!

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How's the weather in September?

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It’s Georgia, so it could be warm and cozy or cool and crisp. Our wedding will be outside, so bring a light layer just in case it gets breezy. We’ll be prepared for anything, but we’re hoping for that perfect September evening!

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Is there a wedding hashtag?

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Yes! #BecomingBarnes captures our story, and we’d love for you to share your photos and moments with us through the night. Bring on the snapshots, and let’s make some memories!

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What if I’m running late?

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Hey, life happens! If you’re running late, just slip in quietly during the ceremony. There will be plenty of time to join in and celebrate afterward. We’d rather have you late than miss out entirely!

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How should I be prepared for the sparkler send-off?

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Get your sparkle on! We’ll be doing a sparkler send-off at 10:30 pm, so plan on being photo-ready. Our last dance will be your cue to get ready outside with a sparkler in hand to send us off in style!

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Who should I reach out to if I have more questions?

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Feel free to reach out to the bride if you have any other questions. She’s got all the details and will be happy to help!