Just look nice, but you don't have to look like you're meeting the queen of England or anything.
If your invite says "and guest," then yes you can. If not, then we would prefer it just be you.
Yes, please bring your kids! We love them!
In lieu of gifts, we are asking for help in paying off our school debts. We have a cash fund link on the Registry portion of our website, and hope that you would consider contributing there so that we can pay as much debt as possible as quickly as possible.
We would prefer if you could RSVP by April 27th so we can have time to plan (there's a LOT of food we'll need to get ready)
There will be a small reception following the ceremony, where there will be food. Also, if you stay at the venue until 5pm, our church has a dinner before their service (it's always amazing).