FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by 28 May.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive before 4:45 PM so we can get started promptly at 5pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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Wear cocktail dress, dressy jumpsuit, jackets and slacks, suits are welcome. For lady's planning purposes, bridesmaids are wearing light green.

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we love the kiddos, we'd like to keep it an adult-only affair. We appreciate your understanding.

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How do I get to/from the wedding?

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You will likely need a rental car for the weekend- we recommend looking on Hotwire.com or Turo.com for the best rates! ***Please be advised Uber/Lyft tend to be limited in the Napa area, so we recommend carpooling to/from the wedding and having a DD so you can enjoy the open bar and have a ride at the end of the night***

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Is there a hotel block?

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Due to the time period/location of our wedding, we've not reserved a hotel block. Our guests will have the freedom to choose wherever they'd like to stay whether it be in Napa or in the neighboring areas! We highly recommend looking in Napa, American Canyon, and Vallejo for hotel & AirB&B options. Get with your friends/family and book early if possible!

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Can I bring a date?

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Although the more the marrier, we already have a large guest list. Please limit your party to those addressed on your invitation / check your RSVP online to see your party.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! There is an option when you RSVP to add a note about food allergies.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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We are having a day-prior welcome event at Taqueria Maria at 6:00pm on Saturday, 2 July. Please see the schedule for more details and RSVP alongside the wedding.

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Are there any wineries that offer free tastings for AD Military? Are they worth going for everyone?

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YES and YES!!! Reservations are required almost everywhere in Napa and it is a holiday weekend so please book early ( & tell them you are military!) Here is a list we have, some things have changed due to covid-times so please call and check with the winery. (If you do enjoy a free tasting, please tip or buy some wine) - Hall - Walt (Pinos) - Peju - Joseph Phelps - Rohmbauer - Mumm (Sparkling) - Rutherford - Bremer Family Winery (Not free but they will comp one tasting per bottle you purchase) - V Sattui ( cool place that has picnic tables and a deli-- you can purchase bottles & food and just enjoy the day!)