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Day-After Brunch has been changed to 11AM - 1PM. See SCHEDULE page for more details.
Day-After Brunch has been changed to 11AM - 1PM. See SCHEDULE page for more details.
September 25, 2022
Nashville, TN

Dustin & Kate's Wedding

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The Wedding Website of Dustin Koester and Kate Methorst
Things you need to know...and please check back for updates closer to the big day! (This is where the rubber meets the road, folks. Buckle up and read carefully!)
Question

😴 I didn't RSVP, should I still just show up?

Answer

No. We will be making sure to get in contact with everyone regarding their RSVP status if they have not replied. Unfortunately, due to deposit payments and calculations, if you didn't RSVP to attend, you will not be able to do so.

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👔 What is the dress code?

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Semi-Formal / Cocktail (defined by an excerpt from Brides.com:) "It's a balance between elegant and comfortable, and typically is more formal than a day wedding but more casual than a night celebration. Instead of a floor-length dress, women should opt for a tea-length, knee-length, or midi dress. Men are required to wear a suit and tie, regardless of the wedding's setting. Remember to look classy and polished, but don't wear something overly embellished or fancy that detracts attention from the newlyweds." Ladies, please refrain from wearing white or cream.

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🍼 Are kids invited?

Answer

No. While we love your little ones, we are having a sans-kiddo wedding (18+ = Adult). We hope you will understand our decision to make the wedding children-free, and take the opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate in style!

Question

🤳 Can I share your ceremony live on my Instagram story?

Answer

No. We ask that there be no phones visible during our ceremony (Cocktail Hour & Reception are fine). We'll have very skilled photographers there to take very important photos for us to cherish forever, and we'll be happy to share them with you when we get them back! So please enjoy the moment with us...without your phone.

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🍔 Will there be food?

Answer

YES YES YES There will be passed appetizers, a casual dinner (no formal seating), dessert, as well as cocktails to feast on. YUM!

Question

🔫 Can I bring my gun to the wedding?

Answer

Water gun? Sure. Real deal? No. Guns will not be allowed on the venue property. Although open/concealed carry is legal in Tennessee, the venue requires that wedding insurance be purchased for the event, and the insurance policy is void if guns are present. Obviously, this will be a zero tolerance issue.

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