FAQs
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by March 20, 2021. There is also the option to RSVP online instead of mailing the card back.
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Are kids invited?
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We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off!
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin at 6, however guests are welcome any time past 5pm. Champagne will be served in the waiting area prior to the ceremony.
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Can I bring a date?
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If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
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What should I wear?
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The dress code is formal or cocktail attire (suits or sport coats for the gentleman, gowns or cocktail dresses for the ladies).
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Is there a shuttle to and from the hotel?
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Yes, check our Travel & Accommodations page for all the info you need.
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How do I get to the venue?
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Please check the Travel & Accommodations page for driving directions as well as directions on public transportation.
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Where should guests park?
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There is a valet at the Tides Estate so your car will be parked hassle-free.
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Will the ceremony be outside?
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Weather permitting, the ceremony will be outside on the grounds at the Tides Estate. If it rains, the ceremony will be inside in the ballroom.
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What happens after the ceremony?
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After the ceremony guests will be escorted inside for cocktail hour.
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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?
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Yes, we'd love for you to share our special day!
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Does your wedding have a theme?
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There is no theme, however we respectfully ask you reserve the color white for the bride.
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Are the ceremony and reception location wheelchair accessible?
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Yes, both areas are accessible by wheelchair. If you have any specific questions we are happy to reach out to the manager for you.
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Is there an open bar?
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Yes! Our priority is making sure our guests have a good time and paying for drinks is not part of it!
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What kind of food will be served at the reception?
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There will be a wide variety of food at the cocktail hour and multiple options for the reception dinner, so come hungry!
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Will there be any vegan / vegetarian / gluten-free / special diet options?
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There will be a vegan option included in the dinner menu. If you have any allergies or special dietary restrictions that you feel may not be accommodated, please reach out to us.