ABSOLUTELY bring the kids!! There may be some music that has language throughout the reception that have strong language; it will not be the entire night though.
No, come comfortable and as you are. We love you for who you are. Jeans and boots are acceptable.
Please arrive at the ceremony 15 minutes prior to be beginning of the ceremony. We both have a decent size family, just a warning. (4:15 or earlier)
No! We are all family, pick a seat wherever you are comfortable. Sit with whomever you want, move around, mingle.