It's hot as heck in July and we have an outdoor ceremony, so prepare accordingly. Do not overdress unless you want to overheat. While it is certainly not mandatory to dress a certain way, something along the lines of "business casual" would be ideal. Even the wedding party will not be wearing jackets. If any of our style inclined guests want to sync up to the motif or match colors to their side we are set up as follows. Andrew's color is royal blue and Kevin's is heather grey. The general feel is an event as bold, loud, and fabulous as we are. Feel free to follow whatever style will work best for you, whether your idea of nice is slacks and a dress shirt, a nice sundress, or even goth, feel free to express yourselves.
This is a gay wedding and there are people of multiple backgrounds, identities, beliefs, and relationship styles attending the ceremony. Hostility towards any of the guests, wedding party and family included, will result in a swift ejection with gusto by Andrew's brawny best man Brenan. If you can't handle being in the same room as a nonbinary individual in a polyamorous relationship, devout Catholics, a member of the Church of Satan, or young children, it may be best you don't attend.
While we are in theory on our way out of the pandemic and we've been given the green light to have the ceremony, at current guest are required to provide either proof of vaccination or a negative Covid test to attend under California regulations. That being said things change almost weekly at this point so we recommend checking with local governments and public health departments to determine what all is going on. We will also try to keep everyone as up to date as we can and will answer texts, emails, or calls as we are able.