All the Questions...

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How do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP on the website under the RSVP tab, or email Kerry at kerryksesil[at]gmail.com

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What should I wear?

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The naandi and wedding ceremonies will be in the south indian traditional style, and we have provided some pointers in the event tab ! The reception is more westernized, so suits/dresses will work then. No color codes; just no absolute white or black, and nothing too revealing :) Dont stress, and reach out to Kerry and Samarth if you need any further clarification. We are happy to help ! Oh, we traditionally dont wear footwear during the ceremonies. Keep that in mind for outfit choices.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors ?

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The mehendi, and the naandi ceremony are both indoors. The wedding ceremony will be partially outdoors. Weather in India around that time is nice, almost warm (high of high 70s, low of 60s).

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Can I attend all events? or only one event?

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You are invited to attend all events, our recommendation would be to ideally fly in a few days prior (to get over jetlag and take in the new environments), maybe around Jan 18th. And staying for all 4 main events (mehendi, naandi, reception, wedding day) and beyond.

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Are Hotels better or AirBnBs?

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We would recommend hotels (some luxury ones listed in "Accomodation" tab. That being said, you can find hidden gems on airbnbs, but its more hassle and more work for you.

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How do I get to and from the venues?

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Bangalore is a bustling city with very convenient ride-share through Uber/Ola (cabs and autorickshaws). The wedding venue is also accessible from the city center by city Metro (above-ground subway) which is a nice experience in itself, but does not run late at night. Would recommend carpooling with other folks, given the traffic and because it will be more fun that way :D We are also happy to help you figure out transportation !

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what time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Come early and hang out late ! In Indian weddings, folks are always milling about, and there's food/beverages always readily available. Basically, there is no strict timing for anyone except the bride and groom :D

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can I bring a plus-one?

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Absolutely, just let Kerry and Samarth know (email info below).

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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?

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Please let us know any serious allergies or restrictions and we will do our best to accommodate it fully ! Meals traditionally are a huge variety of dishes served on a banana leaf, and you can ask for more/ask for specific things. The Indian wedding will be all vegetarian (not vegan), and will have meals involving nuts, milk etc. The water will be bottled or treated, so you dont have to worry about potability. Also, there will be no alcohol served at the ceremonies.

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What are other things we can do in Bangalore or nearby?

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There are soooo many things to do, and it will all depend on how long your India trip is, so we have tried to give broad recommendations on the "Things to Do" tab. Reach out if you need further pointers or recommendations.

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I heard something about 2 weddings...

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Samarth's sister, Srishti is also getting married around the same time to Jay. Their wedding is scheduled for January 31st, 2024. We will be doing a joint reception/mixer on Jan 21st, to make it convenient for the attending guests :) You are invited to both !

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What is India like (for someone who hasnt been)?

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India can be a sensory overload, but it is equally welcoming and warm. And no two parts of India are the same, so it is hard to quantify in this tiny FAQ. Bangalore/Bengaluru is a multicultural metropolis, and almost everyone speaks English, so that will make your experience there pretty smooth. Do travel with some extra time, to explore a few other places near or far : )

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Can I take photos? Can I post on social media?

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Yes, and yes ! hashtag undecided yet :) There will also be a professional photographer team on-site.

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Whom should I call or email with questions?

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You can reach out directly to either Kerry kerryksesil[at]gmail.com 914-417-8552 or Samarth samhegde2006[at]gmail.com 469-995-1415