FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by October 4th, 2025!
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for your understanding!
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Are kids invited?
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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception as an adults-only event with the exception of immediate family. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!
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What is the dress code?
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We'd love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day. Dress code is formal in our wedding colors (sage, emerald, golden yellow, burgundy, navy, or ocean blue) What does black tie mean you ask? Well, in terms of dresses, think floor-length! For anything else, think suit and tie. The ceremony will be outdoors and Missouri Novembers are known to have unpredictable weather, so plan accordingly! We kindly ask that you do not wear jeans, tennis shoes, or any color traditionally reserved for the bride (cream, white, or any shade of those colors).
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Will there be a bar?
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Yes there will be an open bar. So drinks on us, hangover is on you.
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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Your presence will be missed! If you cannot attend, please indicate your regrets on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.
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Can I take pictures?
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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" ceremony (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you could give us is being fully present as we say "I do." We have hired an amazing photographer team to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like (just be sure to share them with us).
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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We are saying "I do" at 4pm, so we ask you arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony so you have plenty of time to park, mingle, and find a seat!
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What if I am late to the ceremony?
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If you are late to the ceremony please do not interrupt, either watch from a distance, wait in your car, or go to the directed reception site. We ask that you do not take a seat to avoid interrupting the ceremony.
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What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?
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We kindly ask that you RSVP no later than October 4th, 2025. We must give our final numbers to our venue in a timely manner therefore if you have not submitted your RSVP by October 4th, 2025 you will be marked down as a "No" response. We will miss you, however, we cannot accommodate late RSVPs.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Absolutely- Reach out to Kenzie or Vincent with any allergy-related concerns/requests!
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Is there parking onsite?
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Yes! All parking is complimentary!
