FAQs

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Can I bring ____?

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Please do not bring anyone not on the invite list. You'll see anyone connected to your invite when you RSVP. If you would like a +1 not listed on your invite, please reach out to us directly. We can't make any promises but as the day gets closer and we review our guest count we will see what we can do!

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I've never been to a Jewish wedding! What does that entail?

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Jewish weddings are incredibly participatory, filled with singing, blessings, movement, and moments where the community plays an active role. We know that, for those unfamiliar with these traditions, it can feel like a lot to take in. Please know that you have been invited because we love you and want to share both this celebration and a piece of our Jewish life with you and there is no need to know anything in advance - your presence, your joy, and your willingness to experience this with us are all that matter. That being said, if you want to immerse yourself fully for this moment we have prepared a doc you can use to learn more! https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SyXqZUgj4syH4vMwNw-YjwX1EDwlraVl/view?usp=drivesdk

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Is there a dress code?

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For Kabbalat Shabbat, please wear all white! For the wedding day, black tie attire is highly encouraged - We hope you’ll join us dressed in a way that feels polished, joyful, and formal. We invite you to lean into elegance, whether that means classic black tie, creative black tie, or gender-expansive attire. Most of all, we want you to feel confident, dressed up, and entirely yourself. Remember to bring shoes you can dance in. Please avoid white. All other times please dress for comfort!