Great question! When people ask Kelsey about the dress code, her normal response is, "formal, but find that outfit that makes you feel amazing!" Formal / Black Tie Optional is probably the easier answer. We want everyone to wear that suit, dress, etc. that they have been dying to have an excuse to wear. The bridesmaids will be wearing floor length dresses and our groomsmen will be wearing tuxedos. Our theme is moody, romantic, fall. So if you would like to fit with the theme, that would be awesome! Please avoid wearing solid black as that is reserved for the bridal party. As well as any “bridal” colors. Think tons of candlelight, fall colors, romantic. Please keep in mind that the ceremony will be outside in November and our venue doesn't have heaters for that area. So dress accordingly! The reception space WILL have heaters! Please, please, please NO JEANS! We love embracing everyone’s unique sense of style, but this is a formal event and we would love for everyone to fall into that category. When in doubt, feel free to ask Kelsey or one of her sisters, we are happy to help you finalize an outfit! Kelsey has made a Pinterest board if you need any ideas: https://pin.it/4zhs27Ivi Some of these pins are dramatic but if that’s your style, please go for it! The brides and groom want everyone to feel and look amazing!
As much as we love your kids, we are only allowing those apart of our immediate family to be present.
With all of the love in our hearts, please don't. We set aside a big part of our budget for professional photography and videography and want to let the professionals do their job! We will be having an unplugged ceremony, please do not get in the way of our wonderful photo/ video team! Kelsey will be very upset :) After the ceremony, please take TONS of pictures! We would love to see your point of view!
Our venue has partial valet parking! This means that the driver of your car will drop everyone off at the ceremony site, then be directed toward the parking area. Staff members will then shuttle the driver back to the ceremony site. We recommend carpooling if possible, it will make it easier for parking!
No! Our venue has a very strict bar policy, we will provide all alcohol. Trust me, there will be plenty!
All vaping and smoking is allowed outside only, in the designated areas. Please keep in mind, our venue has a no tolerance policy on the use of anything besides tobacco, even for medical use, they will shut our reception down. Don't be that person.
We wish! Unfortunately we couldn’t figure out an stress-free and safe way to have them there. Yes, Kelsey is bummed about this. Don’t worry though, we have included them in other ways!
No…don’t do that.
We are so excited to have a few new family members joining our wedding. Please remember that our wedding is taking place at the start of sick season and these babies are still very little! We are so happy that our newest family members and their parents are still able to join us, so please keep your hands, kisses, and any unnecessary opinions to yourselves.