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Oct | 02 | 2026

Christopher James Towler

&

Meredith Elise Kelly

October 2, 2026

Andover Township, NJ
110 days110 d23 hours23 h31 minutes31 min15 seconds15 s

Our Story

March was coming to a close, and that meant one thing: softball season was approaching. With opening day on the horizon, Bye Week was planning their first practice. After receiving the coveted invitation to join the tight-knit team, Chris was eager to make a good impression. In the days leading up to it, he had been working his charm the best he could with frequent jokes in the team group chat. Meredith was not impressed. It was her fourth season on Bye Week (and even longer if you count her seasons on the proto-team that preceded it). π‘Šβ„Žπ‘œ 𝑖𝑠 π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘  𝑛𝑒𝑀 𝑔𝑒𝑦 π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘€β„Žπ‘¦ 𝑖𝑠 β„Žπ‘’ π‘Žπ‘π‘‘π‘–π‘›π‘” π‘™π‘–π‘˜π‘’ β„Žπ‘’ π‘˜π‘›π‘œπ‘€π‘  𝑒𝑠? When the dust finally settled from the struggle of finding a single time that worked for over a dozen New Yorkers, it was decided that we would meet on Wednesday after work. π·π‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘‘!, Chris thought. Wednesday nights were band practice. He would have to leave early. Practice began and Chris’s nerves were showing. After flubbing an easy grounder and dropping a line drive, he was eager to leave this practice for the next. Fortunately, the minute hand on the clock dealt him his mercy. It was time to go. He had just finished packing up his things as Meredith arrived, coming late from work. Mustering the last shreds of confidence that remained after his poor display, he put on a smile, reached out his hand, and introduced himself. After Chris both explained and proceeded with his departure, Meredith thought 𝐻𝑒’𝑠 π‘π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘‘π‘‘π‘¦ 𝑐𝑒𝑑𝑒… As Chris hopped on a citibike, he thought πΌβ€™π‘š π‘ π‘œ π‘”π‘™π‘Žπ‘‘ 𝐼 π‘šπ‘’π‘ π‘ π‘’π‘‘ 𝑒𝑝 𝐡𝐸𝐹𝑂𝑅𝐸 π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ β„Žπ‘œπ‘‘ π‘”π‘–π‘Ÿπ‘™ π‘ β„Žπ‘œπ‘€π‘’π‘‘ 𝑒𝑝…

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Over the next two seasons, Chris began to find his place on the team, and that place happened to be next to Meredith at all the post-game drinks. After bonding over their shared interest in (/obsession with?) Mothman, the two became fast friends, secretly crushing over each other. Meredith sent the first text, telling Chris the words every man wants to hear: π‘¦π‘œπ‘’β€™π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘Ÿπ‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘™π‘¦ π‘œπ‘› π‘Ž π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘™π‘™ 𝑖𝑛 π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ π‘”π‘Ÿπ‘œπ‘’π‘ π‘β„Žπ‘Žπ‘‘ π‘‘π‘œπ‘‘π‘Žπ‘¦ πŸ˜‚ Soon they were texting each other daily, neither ever really sure if the other was interested like that. Next it was Chris’s turn to make a move: Do you wanna do food Friday? Or drinks? And though it took a a few days before they decided on a place, it was a resounding yes. Tacos and drinks at La Lupe. But was it a date? Neither were quite sure. But if it was a date, it was a good one. The conversation flowed, only interrupted by deep belly laughs. As they both started the last of their two-drink maximums, Chris interrupted– π‘Šπ‘’ 𝐻𝐴𝑉𝐸 π‘‘π‘œ π‘ π‘‘π‘œπ‘ π‘‘π‘Žπ‘™π‘˜π‘–π‘›π‘” π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘‘π‘’π‘Ÿ π‘“π‘œπ‘œπ‘‘ π‘π‘’π‘“π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘’ 𝑀𝑒 π‘Žπ‘π‘π‘–π‘‘π‘’π‘›π‘‘π‘Žπ‘™π‘™π‘¦ 𝑔𝑒𝑑 π‘€π‘Žπ‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘‘! Two tostadas and the best flautas on this side of Bushwick later, the dinner was coming to a close, but neither wanted the night to end. π‘Šπ‘’ π‘π‘œπ‘’π‘™π‘‘ π‘‘π‘Žπ‘˜π‘’ π‘Ž π‘€π‘Žπ‘™π‘˜ π‘ π‘œ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ π‘π‘Žπ‘› π‘šπ‘’π‘’π‘‘ π‘šπ‘¦ π‘‘π‘œπ‘”, Chris offered, feeling π‘ π‘šπ‘œπ‘œπ‘‘β„Ž. Meredith didn’t really like dogs, but she liked him. As they walked and talked, Chris thought, 𝐼 𝐻𝐴𝑉𝐸 𝐺𝑂𝑇 π‘‘π‘œ π‘šπ‘Žπ‘˜π‘’ π‘Ž π‘šπ‘œπ‘£π‘’. 𝑁𝑒π‘₯𝑑 π‘‘π‘–π‘šπ‘’ π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ 𝑒𝑦𝑒𝑠 π‘šπ‘’π‘’π‘‘, πΌβ€™π‘š π‘”π‘œπ‘›π‘›π‘Ž β„Žπ‘–π‘‘ β„Žπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ β€œπ‘π‘Žπ‘› 𝐼 π‘˜π‘–π‘ π‘  π‘¦π‘œπ‘’?”. But it was Meredith’s turn to make a move. And without ever making eye contact, she turned and kissed him.

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It wasn’t long before they were spending all their free time together. Cooper and Louis, Meredith’s cats, guardians, and protectors welcomed Chris into the fold. Even Honey-dog started warming up to Meredith (after a rough and… snappy start). Neither could believe how easy life was together, and both fit right in with the other’s family. Starting with a softball team (go Rats! Squeak squeak!) and eventually adopting their first cat as a couple (welcome to your new family, Birdie!), they were building a life together. By the time they signed their first lease, they knew they couldn’t imagine their life without the other. Last thing to do was seal the deal. And now it was once again Chris’s turn to make a move. They had always talked about how nice it would be to have a big softball game with their friends and family, so Chris was determined to make it happen.

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It was a Tuesday afternoon in late July when they gathered at the softball field. π‘‡β„Žπ‘’ softball field. Right where they met a little over two years before. With an overly complicated plan that almost failed for several different reasons, Chris was able to gather friends, family and, most importantly, Meredith for a pickup softball gameβ€” and a scheme. But Chris was nervous. It was this very same field Chris embarrassed himself on during that first practice. Would he once again drop the ball (a metaphorical ball, this time)? So far, it was all going according to plan. Chris was giving each player an introduction, saving Meredith for last. When it was her turn, he would talk a little bit about how they met β„Žπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’, π‘œπ‘› π‘‘β„Žπ‘–π‘  π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ 𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑙𝑑. He would talk about the team they grew and the relationship they grew with it. And then he would pop the question: πΈπ‘£π‘’π‘Ÿ 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑒 π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ π‘‘π‘Žπ‘¦ 𝑀𝑒 π‘šπ‘’π‘‘, 𝑀𝑒’𝑣𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑒𝑛 π‘œπ‘› π‘‘β„Žπ‘’ π‘ π‘Žπ‘šπ‘’ π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘š. 𝐴𝑛𝑑 π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘’π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿπ‘¦ π‘‘π‘Žπ‘¦ 𝐼 𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑 π‘€π‘–π‘‘β„Ž π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝐼 π‘˜π‘›π‘œπ‘€ 𝐼 π‘Žπ‘™π‘€π‘Žπ‘¦π‘  π‘€π‘Žπ‘›π‘›π‘Ž 𝑏𝑒 𝑖𝑛 π‘¦π‘œπ‘’π‘Ÿ π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘š. π‘Šπ‘–π‘™π‘™ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝑏𝑒 π‘šπ‘¦ π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘šπ‘šπ‘Žπ‘‘π‘’ π‘“π‘œπ‘Ÿπ‘’π‘£π‘’π‘Ÿ? That’s what he π‘€π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘π‘’π‘‘ to say. But halfway through the words he had spent so long agonizing over, he was interrupted. π‘Šβ„Žπ‘¦ π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘¦π‘œπ‘’ 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 π‘ π‘œ π‘ŠπΈπΌπ‘…π·?! Meredith couldn’t take it anymore. π‘‡β„Žπ‘’π‘ π‘’ π‘π‘’π‘œπ‘π‘™π‘’ π‘π‘Žπ‘šπ‘’ β„Žπ‘’π‘Ÿπ‘’ π‘‘π‘œ π‘π‘™π‘Žπ‘¦ π‘ π‘œπ‘“π‘‘π‘π‘Žπ‘™π‘™ π‘Žπ‘›π‘‘ β„Žπ‘’ 𝑗𝑒𝑠𝑑 π‘˜π‘’π‘’π‘π‘  π‘‘π‘Žπ‘™π‘˜π‘–π‘›π‘” π‘Žπ‘π‘œπ‘’π‘‘ 𝑒𝑠. π‘‡β„Žπ‘–π‘  𝑖𝑠 π‘ π‘œ π‘Žπ‘€π‘˜π‘€π‘Žπ‘Ÿπ‘‘! she thought. She was so uncomfortable she had to stop him. Chris had no idea what to do. After he managed to pick his jaw up from the floor, he decided to start the line over and act like that didn’t happen. And as he got on one knee, ring in hand, Meredith realized what was happening. π‘‚β„Žβ€¦ After a tearful 𝑦𝑒𝑠!, and a loving embrace, she was ambushed by the friends and family who were hiding by the side to surprise her. After some photos, everyone took to the field for a celebratory game of softball.

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