Our kids will be there and there are kids in the bridal party so we don't mind if you bring yours. But please, please, no babies or toddlers who may have an outburst during one of the most special moments of our lives. And at the reception, after dinner, we ask that you make arrangements for someone to pick your kids up so that we can celebrate adult style. There will be an open bar.
If your invitation specified "and guest" and you rsvp'd that you are bringing a guest, then yes.
Black tie/formal please. We want you to look as fly as us! Because we're going to be sharp!