FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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We would love to know your rsvp status as soon possible! This greatly helps us with planning and arrangements. However, the actual deadline is August 19th, 2025. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we will have to mark you as a "no".
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes! The dress code is formal attire and we would love for our guests to dress up with us! Suits or a jacket and tie are typical for men, while ladies typically wear a formal cocktail dress, jumpsuit, or gown. Please refrain from wearing jeans, shorts, or any other casual attire.
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Can I bring a date? Are children invited?
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Simply due to limited space at our venues, we can only accommodate the guest specifically named on the rsvp.
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Can I take photos during the wedding?
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Out of respect for the sanctity of the mass, we kindly ask that you keep your phones and cameras put away during mass. We will have a professional photographer to capture the key moments of the ceremony for us. Once outside of church, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like! Don't forget to share them with us!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Old St. Vincent doors will open at 2:30 PM and our ceremony will start promptly at 3:00 PM. We would recommend arriving at least 10 minutes prior to secure a seat before the ceremony begins.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have reserved a block of rooms at the Courtyard Marriott Downtown, as this is the closest hotel to the venue! This is the primary hotel we would recommend. Please be sure to book by August 19th to receive the discounted rate. We have also reserved a block at the Fairfield Suites on the west side of Cape. There are several other hotels in the area, including the Riverview at the Century Casino (also very close to the venue), as well as the Drury Plaza, and many other options on the west side of Cape.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes! Both our ceremony and reception venues are conveniently located on Main Street. There are free public parking lots available at each end of Main Street, as well as parallel parking on Main Street, Spanish Street, and Water Street. There is also a small parking lot at Old St. Vincent's. If you are staying at the Marriott, you may also prefer to leave your car at the hotel and walk to and from the venues (weather permitting!).
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Is the wedding outside?
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No! Our ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be indoors.