Laura & Cavan
Wedding Party
Melanie Hart
Maid of Honor
Where do I even begin... a few years ago we were able to experience an epic backpacking trip through Thailand together. Picture this: two girls trying to figure out if elephants appreciate knock-knock jokes and discovering that getting lost in translation (& losing phones) is basically an art form. Oh, and did I mention Mel’s aversion to foot massages? It's practically a crime in her book. While I was indulging in daily foot pampering, she was giving the masseuse a run for their money. I also was able to visit her in Barcelona when she was studying abroad, where she claimed to be fluent in Spanish after a couple of sangrias. Spoiler alert: She's not. But hey, it's the effort that counts, right? Mel also reassured me that we'd have no problem getting home via taxi after a late night out. To our surprise, there was a taxi strike that day so no rides were available (not Mel's fault!), which resulted in an unexpected adventure navigating the streets of Barcelona in the early morning hours. No one else I'd rather get stranded in a foreign city with. Mel has always been the wise one, the confidant I turn to when I need a second opinion or advice on what to do. Somehow she has a way of making things seem so simple and gets me out of my overthinking mind. Thanks, sis, for being my right-hand 'man,' my travel buddy, my listening ear, my best friend, my charcuterie loving partner, and so much more. I have absolutely no idea what I’d do without you.
Tommy Hart
Best Man
Tommy and I met in 2016, and while it took some time for us to get to really know each other, it soon felt like a natural force brought us together. The connection we formed transcended the typical "my sisters boyfriend" friendship, and it felt as though we were long-lost brothers finally finding each other. Our bond feels so strong that it's hard to believe we haven't known each other all our lives. What truly sets Tommy apart is the incredible similarity in our senses of humor. Laughter has been a constant companion in our friendship, with inside jokes, witty banter, and shared moments of hilarity defining our time together. It's a special kind of joy to have someone who not only understands your sense of humor but complements it, making every interaction a true pleasure. Tommy, like myself, is an outgoing extrovert, who revels in social situations, and has more friends than he can count. One of the most remarkable aspects of our friendship is the ease with which we can spend long amounts of time together. To put it simply, we enjoy each other's company, and it's as if we've been lifelong friends. The comfort and familiarity we share make every moment spent with Tommy a treasure. Whether it be Harry Potter binges (ohhh HP!), or late night hangout sessions at my house, Tommy loves his family, and loves his friends, and I'm honored to be able to call myself both of those to him.
Julia Hart
Bridesmaid
My little sister, Julia, and I share a mind so similar that even GPS struggles to tell us apart. We get lost not in directions, but in the rabbit holes of the most profound discussions. Who knew someone almost 10 years younger could drop advice that feels like it's been seasoned with a dash of wisdom and a sprinkle of genius? Some of my favorite memories with Julia are the joy rides we love taking together, probably a good thing we're in the car so no one can hear how loudly we're singing along to one of our favorite songs - Brazil by Declan McKenna! I lean on Julia so much; she is wise beyond her years. Julia started life as the MOST adorable baby, and here she is today, all grown up into my absolute best friend. From cute baby giggles to deep conversations about life to visiting each other in NY (experiencing more joy rides on mopeds!) and Raleigh, Julia always has my back, and I will always have hers. I don't know what I'd do without my Sissy.
Jack Balter
Groomsman
The year is 1998, and it's a sunny day at the Scarsdale Municipal pool, and there I was, drawn into the world of tetherball chaos. Little did I know that this chaotic scene was the inception of a lifelong friendship. Jack, accompanied by his brother Roscoe (Rascal as Jack pronounced it back then), was fervently engaged in a spirited debate over tetherball rules. It was a spectacle that caught my attention, and little did I know that it marked the beginning of a friendship filled with camaraderie and shared adventures. What truly bonded us, beyond the tetherball battles, was our mutual love for sarcasm, dry humor, and the unexpected joy of HGTV. Our sarcasm became a language of its own, weaving through the fabric of our friendship. Jack's quick wit and clever remarks never failed to bring laughter into even the most mundane moments. From Ronkonkoma to Aberdeen to Binghamton and back, Jack has always been down for whatever adventure we could drum up, and I look forward to a lifetime more of memories and laughs with him.
Sarah Hart
Bridesmaid
Let me take you back to when Sarah was in college, where Sarah's ninja skills were unveiled. Picture this: a crowded party, the aroma of delicious Chick-fil-A sandwiches, and there she was, our hero in disguise, stealthily grabbing two sandwiches without anyone noticing. A true legend in sandwich heist history! But it's not just about covert operations and stolen snacks. Sarah and I share a love for the outdoors, and let’s not forget our joint obsession with catching every breathtaking sunset – it’s like a competition but with more "ooohs" and "aaahs." There's something even more special about Sarah. She's the only person, besides my parents, who has known and loved me my entire life. Through the ups and downs in life, Sarah has always been there as my big sister and I will forever be there as her little sister.
Roscoe Balter
Groomsman
The year is also 1998, the setting, also Scarsdale Municipal Pool...But the real bond began in 3rd grade on the Scarsdale Thrashers, where Roscoe and I discovered a shared reality – neither of us had the luxury of a second Hampton's house unlike most of our teammates. Roscoe, in all his glory, is the epitome of level-headedness. Unlike someone you might know (ahem, me), he exudes a calm and collected demeanor that has been a grounding force in our friendship since the tender age of 6. Opposites do indeed attract, as our friendship is a true testament to that. There's a particular memory that stands out – the first time Roscoe ventured into the world of sophistication at the age of 11. Imagine this: a clandestine gathering where he, his brother, my dad, and I shared our inaugural sip of wine. It was a rite of passage, a moment that etched itself into the annals of our shared history (much to his mothers dismay). Roscoe, always up for an adventure, embraced the experience with the same poise that defines him today.
Alex Smith
Bridesmaid
Our adventures together began we when were 12 on the soccer field, but the real MVP moment happened when we booked spur-of-the-moment tickets to Mardi Gras in New Orleans during a casual brunch outing. Because why not add a sprinkle of spontaneity to your life, right? Note to self: never underestimate the power of brunch-fueled decisions with Alex & Laura. All the fun aside, I have to share that Alex is not just a bridesmaid but one of my dearest best friends. I can always confide in her with zero judgment, and she possesses this magical ability to understand how my mind works. Whether it's decoding my random thoughts or navigating through the maze of wedding planning chaos, she's been my rock for so long.
Greg Rogalski
Groomsman
Oh boy, where do I start? I first met Greg in our Chorus class back in 6th grade, but it was in Ms. Potter's (aye Pottah!) 10th-grade math class that our mischievous adventures truly took flight. Greg and I, united by a shared love for humor and chaos and distaste for math, found ourselves alternating getting thrown out of class. Bonded by a love of Dean Martin, The Mafia, anything Joe Pesci related (how we doin), and throwing snowballs at Scarsdale parents cars, Greg truly was down to do anything and everything our wild minds could come up with. Whether it be driving around in Jeff the Jaguar with Volare blaring, or conveniently tying our shoes in busy New York City crosswalks while cabs try to make a turn, Greg is onboard, no questions asked. We proudly founded the non existent Scarsdale Chess Team, much to the confusion of multiple Scarsdale High bus drivers. Greg's energy, personality and fervor for laughs and mischief has always matched mine. To this day, Greg and I deeply mourn the passing of our savior, Chris Farley...may he rest in peace.
Caroline Leary
Bridesmaid
Our friendship began in the most unexpected place – as suite mates during our freshmen year at JMU. Who knew that a shared bathroom could lead to a lifetime of unforgettable moments? From late-night nachos, to freezing cold walks to KA parties, Caroline has been there through it all. If braving the chilly night air and pretending not to feel cold were Olympic sports, we'd be gold medalists. Good times, right Caroline? Caroline never lets me forget embarrassing moments – yes, even the ones involving questionable dance moves. But hey, what are friends for if not to lovingly remind you of your finest hours? Caroline’s not just my bridesmaid; she’s my best friend forever. Thanks for being the one who's been there through it all – from the freshman dorms to the wedding plans, I’m so lucky to have you in my life!
Colin Muldoon
Groomsman
Colin and I met in 1st grade at Edgewood Elementary, (sick eye patch buddy!) A lifelong friend, Colin is a person whose makeup is woven with threads of friendship, leadership, and a shared passion for violent, contact sports. Our journey together started in the streets of New York City, thanks to Colin's mother, who took us to every single museum the city had to offer. Those museum trips not only enriched our minds (while testing Mary Ellen's patience and sanity) but also laid the foundation for a friendship that would withstand the test of time. Whether it's organizing rowdy gatherings at his parents home, or just being a reliable presence, "Doon" embodies the true spirit of friendship. He's the glue that binds our group together, turning ordinary moments into unforgettable memories. Like other friends, Colin and I developed a deep sense of sarcasm and ridiculously long running jokes (dope "inflatable chair"...that joke is literally from 3rd grade). Colin is the only guy I know that can eat as many hotdogs as Joey Chestnut, and my father to this day continually proclaims, "nobody eats like Colin Muldoon"… Notre Dame our Mother, pray for us.
Alexandra Reveille
Bridesmaid
Picture this: in the first grade, I turned around and saw the 'new girl,' and thought, 'Wow, her hair is beautiful.’ Little did I know, this beautiful girl would become my lifelong bestie. Our journey began with childhood crushes, a classic tale of having a soft spot for each other's older brothers. Oh, the innocence of first-grade romance! Fast forward to our summers in Williamsburg, middle school braces, high school dances, roommates at JMU, to standing by each other's sides as we both say I Do. Alexandra's been here through it all. Alexandra’s not just a bridesmaid but the best friend who has shown me what it truly means to have someone there through thick and thin. From the giggles of our crush confessions to the triumphs and challenges of adulthood, she's been my constant. She's the one who understands my quirks, accepts my flaws, and still manages to make me laugh when life gets a little too serious. Thank you for being there for the good, the bad, and all the awkward stages in between.
Rob DeMatteo
Groomsman
I first met Rob at, you guessed it, age 6, (sick bowl cut big guy!) through my next-door neighbor, Sam, and little did I know that this encounter would blossom into a friendship filled with laughter, shared memories, and countless good times. Many of our early bonding moments happened during the epic sleepovers at Sam's place. Those nights were filled with laughter, fistfights, Grand Theft Auto 2 and dressing in all black and spying on Sam and mine's neighbors, appropriately named, "The Grumpy's House." As the years passed, my friendship with Rob evolved beyond the late-night spying escapades. What struck me the most about Rob was his genuine love for his friends. He was the kind of guy who would go above and beyond to ensure everyone around him was having a good time, a trait he still carries to this day. Rob's love for good times and his incredible sense of humor have not only enriched my life but have created a bond that goes beyond friendship – it's more like family. There's too many stories and adventures to count, but I can always count on Rob to be there, not only for me, but for any of our friends.
Sarah Medve
Bridesmaid
The yin to my yang, the one and only Medve – my big in PSE, the dynamic duo in the duck family, and my partner in crime in NY! Medve and I shared countless deep talks walking around the neighborhoods of Brooklyn. It's like a sitcom, but with more heartfelt conversations and fewer laugh tracks. Who knew that discussing the meaning of life while sipping on questionable coffee could be so therapeutic? Now, let's talk about our shared passion for travel hacking. Forget about the stock market; we've mastered the art of finding the best deals and navigating the world of loyalty programs. One of the things I cherish most about Medve is the magical ability to not see each other for months, and when we finally reunite, it's like no time has passed at all. It's a talent, really – the kind of friendship that transcends distance and time.
Kevin Howard
Groomsman
Mine and Kevin's story, or as he's affectionally known as "Howie" kicks off way back when we were just wide-eyed kids. I vividly remember him and I in Davis Park at age 6, armed with shovels and digging until we hit the Atlantic Ocean. Who knew those early days of digging would be the foundation for a friendship that would withstand the test of time? Fast forward a bit, and our adventures took a wild turn during a trip to Mexico. Picture this: two carefree guys finding themselves having to explain their way out of a situation with Mexican Federal police officers. Don't worry; it was nothing too serious, just one of those unexpected twists that became a legendary tale in our friendship saga. Whether golfing in Orlando or soaking up the sun in the Dominican Republic, each journey was a chapter in our book of shared memories. But it wasn't always about jet-setting to far-off lands. Some of the most priceless moments were the countless nights we spent just hanging out at Howie's place, shooting pool, drinking thousands of beers, or watching the Knicks in disgust. Those simple, ordinary nights became the glue that held our extraordinary friendship together. Coupled with his parents, John and Cathy, Howie truly holds a special place in my heart as a brother, and his family, as a surrogate family.
Cristina Borda
Bridesmaid
One of the most beautiful hearts and souls I've ever encountered – Cristina! Let's rewind to that last-minute road trip to Ohio to see Odesza. Two girls, a spontaneous decision, and a jam-packed car. Who knew that a spur-of-the-moment adventure would become a memory I’ll hold close to my heart forever. Cristina and I have thrown combined birthday parties for years, from cabin houses, to paddle boats, to a backyard Hibachi dinner, there’s no one I’d rather share my birthday celebrations with. Beyond the road trips and the parties, Cristina is the advice guru who somehow manages to give me the best guidance, even when I'm convinced my life choices are more chaotic than a game of Twister. Thank you for being the most amazing friend with a heart as beautiful as your mind.
Michael Berl
Groomsman
You might know him as Michael, but to us, he's always been Berl – a friend who turned a random assortment of loud kids into family. Our story began in high school, where Berl entered our friend group. Berl's ability to treat his friends like family is nothing short of remarkable. Loyalty flows through his veins, and he's been a steadfast companion through all of life's hurdles. Berl, with his adventurous spirit, invited me to experience the thrill of flying in his plane. After school hangouts turned into unforgettable memories as we soared over Nantucket, Block Island, Groton, CT and everywhere in between. Behind the adventurous pilot, there's a guy with deep roots in Miami – a city that's not just a place on the map but a part of who we both are. While Berl has assimilated to Manhattan life, him and I have always bonded over Miami (Go Hurricanes!!) From sneaking out of my house at 2am, to playing beer pong during school hours in his basement, Berl has been a mainstay in all shenanigans and a true friend to all of us.