Groom
My name is Grant, and I can’t wait to start this lifelong adventure with the love of my life, Kayma. Her and I met at UNL, and have been pretty much inseparable since then. We like to go on walks with our dogs (Moose and Phoebe), attend rock concerts, watch movies, and random things like painting, putt putt golf, and dancing. I enjoy watching Husker sports, playing cards and video games, rock music, working out, and spending time with family and friends. Kayma and I appreciate all the love and support.
Bride
My name is Kayma and I can't wait to start this forever journey with Grant. We both share a love for rock music, small moments, and travel. I met Grant my first year at UNL and we have been inseparable ever since. We have a full house of very much loved pets including two dogs named Moose and Phoebe, two cats named Ozzy and Slash, and two lizards named Smaug and Foster. We spoil all of our pets and love to spend time with them. I'm a big fan of horror movies, dinosaurs, and art. We can't wait to share the biggest day of our lives with every single one of you, and are so grateful for the love and support we have!
Best Man
Evan Benson 30 Brother of the groom Lives in Lincoln working as a plumbing manager. Aspiring to graduate from embarrassing golfer to bad golfer. Looking forward to being a part of the happy couple’s special day!
Matron of Honor
Hi, I am one of Kaymas older sisters. I have been married to my husband Tyler for almost 9 years and we have two boys Eli who is 10 and LJ who is 7. I've known Kayma for awhile, since her huge hit with Sammy Hagar in the womb in 1997. I have so many amazing memories with her growing up. I take pride in her modeling career; as I dressed her up like a little boy everyday when she was little and photographed her with my Polaroid camera. She has always been independent and a traveler/adventurer. The day I met Grant Kayma was no longer my little sister. I've never seen her so happy in my life, and I know this will continue as their lives together grow.
Matron of Honor
Hey all! I am Kiley, Kayma's oldest sister and partial wedding planner- since I too was married during the pandemic last year. I am the Mom of Kasen and Kinley, attendants in the wedding as well. Kayma and I may be 12 years apart in age, but we have always been pretty inseparable-- at least once she was born-- funny story there for another time. Kayma and Grant are always great company and I am excited to gain Grant as a brother-in-law so we can continue the festivities. Most likely, I will be the one with a drink on the dance floor as I can't wait to celebrate the beginning of the lives for these two. Yay! #becomingbenson
Matron of Honor
I’m Sara Weedin and I’m one of Kayma’s older sisters. I am so incredibly honored to have Kayma as my little sister. She brings so much joy and spunkiness into my life! Whenever we are together, it is never a dull moment! Whenever I need a good laugh or need some cheering up, she is always right there!
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid
Kayma and I met through our fiancé’s (now husbands) a few years back! We instantly hit it off well and are like soul sisters at this point. A favorite memory I have of my little bride here is when we spend our weekends together in KC to just get trashed at the power and light district. I could always count on Kayma to make sure I was well taken care of, that why I know Grant found someone to take care of him for the rest of his life! Can’t wait the dance the night away at the Benson wedding!
Bridesmaid
Ashlyn is engaged to Kayma’s sister’s husband’s nephew, Colton. Ashlyn's weirdness matches Kayma’s weirdness, and it was a dinosaurs and Tech N9ne friendship at first sight!
Bridesmaid
I met Kayma in South Padre on Spring Break in 2019! We instantly hit it off and have been close ever since (even living states away from each other)! She’s the one who introduced me to the love of my life so of course I’m excited and honored to be a part of she and Grant’s big day!
Bridesmaid
Kayma and I have been best friends since 4th grade. We have stayed friends throughout the years even when we've both moved away multiple times. There's never a dull moment when Kayma and I are together, and it's always full of laughter. Her and I have gone on spring break trips the last two years together (Ask us about the first time)! Being her friend for the past 13 years has been one heck of a ride and I can't wait for the next 13 years to see what it brings us.
Bridesmaid
I originally met Kayma in middle school and reconnected with her a few months ago. We hit it off right away and Kayma instantly adopted me into her friend group. I’m so blessed to have met such an amazing girl that I now get to call one of my best friends. I love you Kayma and I’m so excited to celebrate with you and Grant on your special day!
Bridesman
I met Kayma through a mutual friend way back in middle school, throughout the years as we’ve both moved around and our lives changed we always stayed in touch. Now that we’re both back in Lincoln I do my best to keep both her and Grant’s vehicles on the road, I’m always happy to help even though Kayma’s beer choices could definitely improve. I’m so happy for you two and glad to be a part of your lives!
Bridesman
Padre 2019 Kayma was one of the best wingmen ever.
Bridesman
Kayma and I met at the pool during teen night a little bit after she moved to Spring Hill. Her personality was infectious and I instantly made the decision that this girl had to be one of my friends. Over the last several years we have had so many deep conversations and memories that I hold very close to heart and in all honesty I have no idea what my life would look like without her in it. The best memories I have besides these conversations are easily from our trip to Padre, especially the jam sessions. Grant found himself an amazing woman and I’m looking forward to seeing their relationship growing forward.
Bridesman
I had the luxury of meeting Kayma through a group of mutual friends during our Freshman year of high school. What started off as mutual acquaintances quickly turned into a lifelong friendship with Kayma’s sense of including others and being a beacon of happiness. Since high school, we’ve partied in basements, explored all over Kansas City, and road tripped down to the beaches of South Padre. Kayma’s certain ability to make everyone “enjoy the ride” as well as the people along for it is a reason why I believe these two will have a long and healthy marriage.
Groomsman
"Here's the deal I'm the best there is. Plain and simple. I wake up in the morning and I piss excellence."
Groomsman
Favorite cousin of the Groom. Lives in Kansas City working as an exercise specialist. 28 years old. Single. Good Guy.
Groomsman
Hi, I’m Zach Zahnow I am the cousin of the groom. My family consists of my wife Morgan and my daughter Rylie. My wife and I have been married for 2 years now and we are happy to celebrate the beautiful couple!
Groomsman
I've been friends with Grant since we first met in Dentonators baseball. Still not a big fan of how hard he still throws a ball during catch though I've matured enough to understand that he won't hit me right in the chest every time. Something about me is that I’m a big Husker fan, yes even now.
Groomsman
My name is Drew Van Ert and I am a Groomsman in the wedding. Benson and I go back to basically the beginning of time for us. We went Kindergarten through High School Graduation together. If we were not at school together we were probably playing baseball or at Denton Summer Rec. There are so many memories between Grant and I that it is tough to narrow it down, but this day is not about me it is about the joining of two individuals to create the start of a beautiful family! Cheers!
Groomsman
I first met Grant when he was the new kid in 7th grade, and over the years we became good friends through school and playing baseball together. Some of my favorite memories with Grant include watching husker games, shooting hoops in the driveway, and playing countless games of pitch.
Groomsman
I met Grant back in middle school when he came to Crete. He has been a lifelong friend since. My favorite memories include long nights playing cards, competitive lawn games in his parents backyard, and playing the Wii(all of which he beat me at)! Excited to be a part of Grant and Kayma's special day!
Usher
I have known Grant since middle school. From playing sports to many nights of card games, Grant and I have had some good times. A favorite memory we share is a “no parents” ski trip we went on in high school. I work for Sampson Construction in project estimating and business development. Some interesting things about me is I am a private pilot and have built my own house.
Usher
Grant and I have been friends since middle school. We once watched all three Lord of the Rings movies in a row which took like 15 hours!
Usher
I met Grant in middle school I believe and became friends through a bond of sports and Wii video games. Some of the best times where hanging in the Benson basement playing the Wii until late hours of the night. Anytime we could beat Grant would be a treat as he was always the best. Looking forward to celebrating his big day in October!
Ring Bearer
Hi my name is Eli (Elijah) I am 10 years old and a fifth grader. My favorite things to do are playing the violin and on the PS4, and my favorite color is white. I love when Grant and Kayma come over because they are funny and I really like spending time with them.
Ring Bearer
Hi my name is Lj (Landon Joeseph). I am 7 years old and a first grader. My favorite thing to do is gymnastics and my favorite color is blue. The best part about Kayma and Grant is that they bring me loads of ice cream and candy, I also love all of their animals.
Bridal Attendant
Please DO NOT buy the BTS meal if you don't stan them. You're preventing the actual BTS fans who have waited for months from having the BTS meal experience. Eating the sauces without understanding their significance is literally cultural appropriation and it's not okay
Honor Attendant
Sup, I am Kasen--I am 14 years old. I play baseball for a select team and love video games. Kayma is my Aunt and Grant is my soon-to-be Uncle. This wedding should be fun because Kayma is random and probably will have some surprises through the night. Ha. Good deal, see you all there!
Honor Attendant
Hello! I am Kinley and I am 11 years old. I am Kayma's neice and I am super excited to be apart of my Aunt's special day! We have a close relationship and I can't wait to gain an Uncle too! I fully plan on raiding the snack bar and dancing all night so be prepared for a fun time. #BecomingBenson