FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We recommend to RSVP as soon as you can, but we request you kindly do so before June 15th, 2025. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, so we hope you understand. If you happen to not RSVP before this date, we will mark you as 'no'. Thank you.

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I’d love to come, but I’m not sure I can—what should I do?

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We completely understand that a destination wedding is a big commitment, and we don’t want anyone to feel obligated to say yes if it’s not feasible. Your presence would mean the world to us, but we know that travel and timing may not work for everyone. If you do RSVP, please take a moment to be sure you can attend, as we’ll be planning and providing based on final guest numbers. No matter what, we appreciate your love and support!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guests are able to arrive up to 30 minutes before the ceremony starts. We recommend for you to arrive on time if you are driving due to parking. If not, uber or lyft would be best. Reminder that doors will close 10 min before our ceremony time.

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What is the wedding attire?

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We kindly ask that guests wear formal attire in rich fall colors to complement our autumn celebration. Please avoid neutral shades like white, beige, cream, tan, or light gray, as well as black suits and black ties. Instead, think deep greens, forest or sage, burgundy, wine red, burnt orange, terracotta, mustard, rust, plum, or other warm jewel tones. Gentlemen may wear white shirts under colored suits or jackets. I will link a pinterest page for visual ideas! https://pin.it/3FljyDyFs

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Is the wedding outside?

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Yes. Ceremony and cocktail hour are set to be outside, with dinner and the party are on the inside for most of the night. October in Asheville is beautiful, but the weather can be unpredictable—mild during the day and chilly at night, so be prepared for cooler temps as the evening goes on.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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At this time, our rehearsal and welcome dinner are for our bridal party and very immediate family. But not to worry. We have a list of things to do in the area on our website, so you can make the most of your weekend!

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you’ve received a plus one, they’ll be specifically addressed on the invitation. Otherwise, we kindly ask that only the named people in the invitation are in attendance.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kids, but to keep our wedding intimate, we are only able to accommodate children included in your invitation. While they are welcome, we completely understand if you prefer a night out to celebrate with us!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Absolutely! There will be drinks, beer, & wine available during cocktail hour and dinner. Will continue on for the party! We want you to have the best time, so the drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! ;)

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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While we won’t be providing transportation from the hotel, we kindly ask you to arrange your own travel. The hotels we recommended are less than 10 minutes away. Thank you for understanding!