FAQs
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RSVPs
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The RSVP deadline has passed, but if you need to check your response(s) or make any changes, please contact the bride or groom directly.
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What Should You Wear to the Welcome Event?
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The welcome event is "elevated-casual" attire. We know that people are traveling on this day, so feel free to wear anything from jeans or slacks and a nice shirt to a dress or skirt!
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What Should You Wear To the Wedding?
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Please follow a "cocktail" attire dress code. For the ladies, we recommend bringing a shawl or light cardigan in case it's chilly. For the gentleman, long-sleeve dress shirts, ties, and jackets should do the trick. It's 2025, so please do not wear any variation of white to the wedding.
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What's the Weather Forecast?
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October in Wisconsin is beautiful, yet unpredictable. It will most likely be in the upper 60s/low 70s during the day and upper 40s/50s at night. We recommend planning for cooler weather.
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Will the Wedding Day be Indoors or Outdoors?
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The ceremony will take place indoors, but please keep in mind that it is not heated. There is an outdoor space for cocktail hour, but you are more than welcome to enjoy that time indoors. The reception will be indoors and temperature-controlled.
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Where Should You Stay?
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We have a list of hotels we have blocked off. Please see the Hotels & Airport page!
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What is the Transportation to the Wedding?
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We will have buses to take you from the hotels to the venue. Please see the Schedule page for the bus schedule.
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Is There Parking at Lilac Acres?
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If you are driving to the wedding yourself, there is a large parking lot at the front of the venue. We ask that you arrive between 5:00 pm and 5:20 pm.
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Is There An Open Bar?
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Of course! Drinks are on us!
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Can You Take Pictures During the Ceremony?
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We will be having a phone-free ceremony. We have a wonderful photographer who will take amazing pictures, so we kindly ask that your phone be away during this part of the day. You can take lots of pictures at the cocktail hour and reception!
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Oh No! Did You Forget Something?
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No worries, it happens. There are plenty of Targets in Milwaukee County as well as the Bayshore Mall (Glendale) and the Mayfair Mall (Wauwatosa). You can also DoorDash items to your hotel!