FAQs
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive by 3:30pm. It takes at least ~15 minutes to get through Security & Seated at the Ceremony. We HIGHLY recommend you leave Cary 1-hour prior to the ceremony start time. Ubers in the Cary area can sometimes take a while to call. Please plan in advance. If you are late, you will not be permitted into the ceremony.
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes! We are asking our guests to dress up with us! Attire for the Wedding Day is Black Tie. We ask that men wear a black tuxedo (strongly preferred) or black suit with black tie (no colored suits please) and women wear a floor-length gown. We also kindly ask that our female guests avoid wearing greens, whites, creams, or ivory reserved for the bride/bridal party.
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Are kids welcome?
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Although we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adult-only celebration.
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Is there parking at the Wedding Venue?
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Yes, there will be parking available for those who are driving to/from our venue. Please contact Lauren for more details. (262-408-0394)
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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There will not be transportation to the Wedding Venue. However, We will be providing buses on the way home (@10pm) to prevent drinking and driving. Please read the "Travel" section for more details.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to the limited capacity of our venue, we are unable to accommodate plus ones unless specifically indicated on your envelope.
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Can I take pictures throughout the Ceremony/Reception?
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We love pictures and encourage you to take many! Our only ask is if you want to take photos/videos, please wait until the ceremony is over. Otherwise, please take as many as you'd like. And feel free to share with us too!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! Please drink on us! We will provide a full open bar with spirits, beer, cocktails, and a selection of red & white wines. We will also have non-alcoholic options. Drinks will be served from 4:30-9:30pm.
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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We are having a Welcome Party before the wedding day so we are able to spend more time with guests visiting from out of town. We would love if you can make it! See details under "Schedule" tab.
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, we ask that you kindly RSVP by August 18, 2025. If we don't receive your RSVP by the date specified, we cannot make any exceptions and will have to mark you as a 'no'. We need to provide the venue with total guest count and meal preference in a timely manner; we hope you can understand.