Officiant
I am a queer Unitarian Universalist minister in Memphis, TN. I believe all people are my people, the streets are my parish, and everywhere we are, we stand on holy ground. I met the brides while protesting for the Black Lives Matter movement in 2020, and they asked me to officiate before they even got engaged!
Ring Bearer
I don't know exactly what's happening but I was told treats and a new bow tie were involved.
Bridesmate
I am from Marina, CA, I am Jolie's sibling, and I use they/them pronouns. I went to school for social work and graduated in December of 2022. I am the proud parent of my reptilian son, Kevin (pictured), who unfortunately will not be attending due to not being able to travel. I will be escorting Tonks down the aisle and acting as her security for the night.
Flower Boys
Thank you to the coolest little dudes for stepping up last minute! Jolie became Asa and Jude's nanny at the end of 2021, and they were instantly her two tiny besties. Although Jolie is no longer their nanny, both her and "Cake-lyn" love spending time with the boys whenever they get the chance! Asa is an extremely kind and hilarious kiddo, and Jude is very sweet and always ready to have fun. They will absolutely tear up the dance floor! The brides are absolutely thrilled to have these two toss some petals and make the aisle pretty for them!
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These two were originally going to be a bridesmaid and our flower boy, but unfortunately they’re now unable to travel to join us. Rachael and Kaitlyn met three years ago and quickly became great friends. Danvers is such a fun and smart little guy who was immediately obsessed with Jolie when they first met when he was only five months old. We love them so much and hate that they can’t join us, but they will be celebrating with us from afar!
Bridesmaid
I'm Dr. Audrey Mattoon - as the girls say, "I got my doctorate at a school where you get doctorates." I've been married to Jenna Mattoon for a little over three years. She gave me the opportunity to meet and then adopt my two favorite gaybies. I'm the go-to person for car trouble, taxes, and anything to do with "weird noises are coming from behind the washing machine." I could not be more proud of these girls. Jenna and I love them like family. Sometimes it feels like there was never a time before Kaitlyn and Jolie were in love - it just seems like y'all were always meant for each other. Your crazy lesbian aunts love you - don't forget it! "Ohana means family. Family means no one gets left behind." - Lilo and Stitch
Bridesmaid
I am from New Hampshire and met Kaitlyn on the internet in 2015. I am currently in my junior year of college studying film production. I am a creative, free-spirited, bubbly, passionate individual who believes in spirituality and astrology - I'm a Pisces. I see the best in people and clearly Kaitlyn and Jolie see me as the best because they chose me to be in their wedding!
Bridesmaid
Hi! I'm Brittany! I'm a performer, hair color chameleon, Disney adult & cat mom based in Orlando, FL, who loves to sing songs and make friends - especially via YouTube! I met Kaitlyn in 2015 on a live-streaming platform where, even simply through words on a screen, her incredible light was immediately evident & it wasn't long until we became close friends & she began referring to me as "mom". It's been amazing watching her bloom into the fantastic human she is today & to witness her falling in love with such a wonderful person. It's one of the greatest honors of my life to be a part of the celebration of Kait Kait & Jolie's happily ever after!
Bridesmaid
Hi babes! My name is Daisy and I'm from San Diego, California. I am a future realtor and a Taurus. I would say I am very funny, honest, and self-driven. I love a fun night out, but I also love a quiet night by myself at the gym. I met my bestie Jolie back in eighth grade. Fun fact - Jolie didn't like me before we met because she knew I was the mean girl in middle school but don't worry, there's a happy ending! Jolie and I became best friends! As you know, you always want the best for your friends and that is why Kaitlyn and Jolie are perfect for each other. This is the happiest I've ever seen Jolie and I can't wait to see the joy that is to come. I love you both so much and I can't wait to celebrate this special day with you guys. Happy wedding!
Bridesmaid
I'm a musician and marketing enthusiast currently living in Nashville, TN. I'm the cool gay aunt of the wedding party - which means I'm kind of old, a bit crazy, and will show up with presents and wine. I'm married to Audrey Mattoon - the other gay aunt. We've been married for 3 years. I met Kait back when I was on American Idol and we became obsessed with each other pretty quickly. She then brought Cupcake into our lives and now we refuse to let her leave. <3 We love our little gaybies to the moon and back. I could not be more proud to stand beside these two courageous, kind, generous, beautiful young women. (Love you both so much) "Mawwaige is what bwings us together today." -The Princess Bride
Bridesmaid
Hi there, I’m Katie! I’m a Capricorn, my favorite colors are sage green and light blue, and I always say that everything happens for a reason. Unique, I know. Now that the basics are out of the way, I’m happy to say that I know Kaitlyn through Bri! I’ve been with Bri since December 2021 and have been lucky enough to inherit all her amazing friends. I’m a junior in college and can’t wait to be done. I currently live in the mountains, but I can’t wait to run for the hills as soon as I can. In the meantime, I’ve gotten into reading, restarted my kickboxing journey, and am always working more than I want to.
Bridesmaid
I am an artist based in Chattanooga, TN. I met Jolie at work and we instantly clicked. We have so much in common it's like we're sisters raised on opposite sides of the country, like a less exciting version of The Parent Trap. I met Kaitlyn shortly after. With Kaitlyn, life is like a musical in real life in the best way. I can't wait for them to have their magical wedding and live their happily ever after.
Bridesmaid
I'm a singer/songwriter based in Atlanta, GA. Also known as Mira Blues, I think of myself as "The Big Sister." One night in the summer of 2015, I was singing on the internet, and a wild Kaitlyn Deer appeared. This fearless, intelligent, deeply encouraging, and fiercely loyal girl became a little sister to me. It's been an honor to watch her grow up and find the woman of her dreams! I can't think of a better match than Jolie! ITS NOT JUST A WIG, ITS A WIFE!