Frequently Asked Questions

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What is the Gospel?

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Put simply, the Gospel is the good news that Jesus Christ, the Son of God, lowered Himself to be a human, was crucified, buried, and resurrected after three days in order to conquer sin, defeat death, and give those who believe in Him, through nothing we have done ourselves, eternal life.

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Does the address show up on a GPS?

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No, but the wedding will be down the gravel driveway directly across the street from Deerhaven neighborhood.

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What is the attire?

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It is wedding formal. This means suits for guys and dresses for girls.

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Are you registered?

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Yes, we are registered on Amazon, Target, and Oxford Floral. Please see the "Registry" tab on this website for links. Anything is appreciated!

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What time does the wedding start and end?

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5:30 pm. Please arrive an early to allow time for parking and seating. The newlywed Rutledges will depart the wedding at 10:00 pm.

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Is this wedding Christian?

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Yes. People of all religions are welcome, but Cass and Julie seek to glorify Jesus in their wedding and to exemplify Christian virtue throughout their entire marriage. If you'd like to learn more, please ask Cass, Julie, or any other Christian about our faith.

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How can I help the newlywed Rutledges?

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Thanks for asking! We believe that marriage is not a task just for the couple getting married. First, please pray for us. Pray that we love each other, die to ourselves for each other, and glorify Christ together. Second, please encourage us in our marriage and to abide by the vows we made before you, each other, and God. Third, please lovingly hold us accountable.

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Can I bring my plus one?

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While we would love to meet your lovers, we sadly do not have room for anyone not listed on the invitation. The exception is if you are engaged or married!

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Are kids welcome?

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We’d love to celebrate with everyone, but due to limited space, we can only host those listed on the invitation.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes, but do not drink too much.

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Can I smoke my cigarette?

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NO. Our Nigerian friend Chukwuemeka will shoot you with a water gun. However, there will be an area for classy cigar smoking.

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Will there be line dancing?

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YES! Led by Michael Morrow.

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Will there be adequate parking areas?

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Yes, but you may need to give your keys to a valet. Also, please carpool if able.

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Do I need to bring my own food?

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It is not required. There will be food available.

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Is there a swimming pool and is swimming allowed?

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Yes and yes!

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May I wear a swimsuit under my dress clothes?

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Yes. Feel free to wear whatever you'd like to under your dress clothes.

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Are any particular shoes required?

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Generally no, but if your feet are jacked up like Cass's, please wear closed-toe shoes.

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Why does Cass have so many groomsmen?

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He has five brothers, a dad, and a cousin, and Julie has two brothers. Cass and Julie felt it important to include them all in addition to Cass's friends.

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What if I have a complaint?

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Please email all complaints to Will Rutledge at will.rutledge@gmail.com.

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What is marriage?

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Marriage is the God-ordained, legally binding, lifelong commitment between one man and one woman that forms a new family. Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

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What is a wedding?

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A wedding is the public, legally binding ceremony that marks the beginning of a marriage.

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Is anyone CPR certified at the wedding?

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Thankfully, the bride, Julie, is CPR certified. Isn't she just so talented!?

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When is the wedding?

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It is on Saturday, May 23 at 5:30 pm. We recommend arriving early to ensure adequate time for parking and seating.

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How do I get in touch with the single handsome groomsmen that is Cass's older brother?

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You can follow him on Instagram @rimesrutledge or email him at rimes.rutledge@gmail.com.

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Are any of the groomsmen single?

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Yes. Please inquire to Will Rutledge at will.rutledge@gmail.com.

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What language will the events be held in?

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All festivities and literature will be in English. If in need of other language accommodations, please contact Will Rutledge at will.rutledge@gmail.com. Alle Festlichkeiten und Lesungen finden in englischer Sprache statt. Sollten Sie andere Sprachoptionen benötigen, kontaktieren Sie bitte Will Rutledge unter will.rutledge@gmail.com. ستُقام جميع الفعاليات والمطبوعات باللغة الإنجليزية. في حال الحاجة إلى خدمات بلغات أخرى، يُرجى التواصل مع ويل روتليدج عبر البريد الإلكتروني will.rutledge@gmail.com. Todas las festividades y la literatura se ofrecerán en inglés. Si necesita adaptaciones en otro idioma, por favor, contacte con Will Rutledge en will.rutledge@gmail.com. 所有慶祝活動及宣傳品均以英文呈現。如有其他語言需求，請聯絡 Will Rutledge，信箱為 will.rutledge@gmail.com。

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How many kids do Cass and Julie want to have?

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There is no specified number, but they want as many kids as possible. Having kids is a great way to store up treasures in heaven. And God blessed them. And God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:28

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Will there be a sign language interpreter at any of the events?

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No.

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Will we sing any songs during the ceremony?

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Yes, we plan on singing a portion of "Lord, I Need You" by Matt Maher.

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Who is Julie Moore?

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Julie Moore is the bride at the wedding on May 23, 2026. She is beautiful in every way.

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Who is Cass Rutledge?

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Cass Rutledge is the groom at the wedding on May 23, 2026.

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Do Cass and Julie celebrate Valentine's Day?

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Not officially. They do, however, like to eat at Southern Coop, an Oxford wing joint, annually around that time.

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Am I liable for my own injuries?

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Yes unless the law states otherwise.

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Are animals allowed?

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No, but if you have any zebras, monkeys, elephants, parrots, or other exotic creatures, please let Will Rutledge know at will.rutledge@gmail.com.

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Can I crash the wedding?

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No unless you have express permission from either the bride or groom.

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Is entry to the wedding free?

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Yes. Your presence is payment enough.

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What if I have an allergy?

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Please avoid eating foods or coming into contact with anything that you are allergic to. Seeing an allergist might also be a good idea.

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What do I do if my question is not listed?

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Feel free to send any comments or questions to Will Rutledge at will.rutledge@gmail.com

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I forgot my password—what should I do?

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Usually, depending on the password you lost, there should be a "Forgot Your Password?" button you can press that will send you a link to reset your password.

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What are your business hours?

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We are not a business and are not operating at specific times. However, the wedding is at 5:30 pm and will conclude at 10:00 pm on Saturday, May 23, 2026.

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Is there a deadline?

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We are hoping all guests will have RSVPed by April 25.

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Is this required or optional?

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Wedding attendance is totally optional. Please RSVP that you will not be coming if you decide not to join us.

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Are there any risks involved?

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As with anything, there are risks. However, risks are kept to a minimum.

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Where can I find more information?

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You are at the right place. Our website should have plenty of information. It is zola.com/wedding/julieandcass. However, if you need more information, please contact Will Rutledge at will.rutledge@gmail.com

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How do I contact in case of an emergency?

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Depending on the severity of the emergency, it would be wise to call 911.

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Will this wedding be fun?

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We sure do hope so!