FAQs

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How will I know if I'm invited?

Answer

Formal invitations will be mailed by the end of April.

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What should I wear?

Answer

Wear whatever you like. This is an outdoor wedding, so light and airy is probably the way to go. We want all our guests to be comfortable!

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Where should I stay?

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We are holding a room block at the Quality Inn of Old Saybrook for the night before the wedding and the night of, should guests wish to stay over. Here is the booking link: https://www.choicehotels.com/reservations/groups/SR19Y6?checkInDate=2025-07-18&checkOutDate=2025-07-20&ratePlanCode=BTDPCM

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What happens if it rains?

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The castle has a covered area to hold the ceremony in the event of rain. Meanwhile, the reception is going to be held on a completely covered patio.

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Is anyone changing their last name?

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No, we are both quite attached to our names, so no one's name will change after the wedding.

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What is the theme?

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Our wedding's theme is love, marriage, and literature!