Our relationship started a bit unconventional than most. It wasn't love at first sight or a "wow she's cute let me get to know her". Instead we actually did not like each other, like at all. We met at work where it was a very competitive environment and if you know us then you will know how competitive we are, so naturally our push to be the #1 salespeople made us compete with each other. But the interesting thing about competition is you spend more time thinking of the other team or "person" than you care to admit. I began to admire the person Julia is. Her personality and character are unmatched. She works hard, presents herself well and is always trying to better herself. I found myself wanting to be around her more and more. After our work days, we would have deep conversations about our goals, aspirations, and just life. We would always try to find a reason to be next to each other. Slowly that grew into appreciation and care for each other. It wasn't until sveral months later I actually realized how beautiful she was. Maybe love is blind or maybe I was just blind; nevertheless our true feelings started to show and we both realized how far deep in love we were for each other. She was perfect for me and that terrified me at first. You start asking questions like, Am I ready? Do I want to settle down? What if this? What if that? Looking back at it now I find those thoughts ridiculous and the truth is they were just walls I had put up. But I needed those questions asked otherwise I would've never fought to break the walls down for her, she was worth letting inside, she was worth it all. Once I realized that I knew I had to Marry her, I booked a flight to California to ask her family for her hand, we moved to Dallas to start a new life together, and I proposed to her 1 month into our new livelihood. They are more details, doggies, and changes we experienced together but all you need to know is I wouldn't have done those with anyone else! I love you Julia.
“Even at your absolute best, you will never be enough to the wrong person…but at even at your worst, you will be WORTH fighting for to the RIGHT person” Jonathan is MY PERSON. He is worth my fight everyday and I KNOW he has fought for me with that same tenacity. I’ll spare you the lenghthy love story for the ceremony ya’ll. Just know that I love you Jonathan!