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GENERAL QUESTIONS:

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About Los Gatos, travel, dress codes, etc.

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What is the weather usually like in Los Gatos, CA?

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Late April in Los Gatos is usually beautiful, with daytime highs in the mid-70s and cooler evenings in the 50s. Expect lots of sunshine! We recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap, especially once the sun goes down.

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Is there a dress code? I don't know what to wear.

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If you need a little help translating the dress codes, we got you! Welcome Party: Campo Di Bocce Smart Casual | Playful & Comfortable Think sundresses, jumpsuits, blouses or polo shirts and nice jeans. Flat, comfortable shoes are required for Bocce - sneakers are great! No heels are permitted on the courts. Wedding Ceremony & Reception: Regale Winery & Vineyards Black Tie Optional | Tuscan Chic Elegant gowns, cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, tuxedos, or nice suits. Floral and/or spring colors are encouraged but not required! Block heels, wedges, or dressy flats are recommended for the beautiful outdoor spaces. Post-Reception Bar Hop: Downtown Los Gatos Party Casual | Fun & Festive Stay in your wedding look or change into something fun and comfy. Casual outfits and dancing shoes encouraged—Kamikaze shots at The Black Watch await!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence is the greatest gift! If you wish to give more, we have a honeymoon fund and a first home down payment fund. See our "Registry" page for details.

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WELCOME PARTY QUESTIONS:

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General Welcome Party & Campo di Bocce FAQs.

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What is a welcome party? Will you be having an engagement party?

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In lieu of an engagement party, we’re hosting a Welcome Party to kick off the wedding weekend! With family and friends coming from both coasts (and everywhere in between), we wanted a fun, relaxed way to spend more time together. Join us for drinks, bites, bocce, and plenty of mingling—no speeches, no pressure, just good vibes before the big day!

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What is Campo di Bocce?

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Campo di Bocce is a charming Italian-inspired venue in Los Gatos that combines great food, drinks, and bocce ball! We chose it because bocce is a beloved family tradition, and this spot captures the fun, laid-back energy we wanted to kick off our wedding weekend. Think cozy Tuscan vibes, friendly competition, and a perfect place to celebrate with the people we love! For more information, check out their website: www.campodibocce.com

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Will the welcome party at Campo di Bocce be held indoors or outdoors?

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The party will be held at Campo di Bocce in Los Gatos, on their beautiful outdoor bocce courts. Heaters will be available, but we recommend bringing a light jacket just in case it gets chilly.

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Is there a welcome party dress code? I don't know what to wear.

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Our Welcome Party at Campo di Bocce will be Smart Casual | Playful & Comfortable. Think sundresses, jumpsuits, blouses or polo shirts and nice jeans. Flat, comfortable shoes are required for Bocce - sneakers are great! No heels are permitted on the courts.

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When should I arrive to the welcome party? Do I have to stay the entire time?

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We recommend arriving right at 1:00 PM so you can grab a drink, mingle, and get in on the games early. The party runs until 4:00 PM! Come for as much or as little as you’d like—we’ll just be happy to see you.

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Are kids allowed at the welcome party?

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Yes! The Welcome Party is casual and family-friendly—kids are welcome to join the fun. We kindly ask that you indicate how many guests (including children) will be in your party when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

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Is there parking at the welcome party? what about ride shares?

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Yes! There is plenty of free parking available on-site. Campo di Bocce is also walkable from downtown Los Gatos and easily accessible via Lyft, Uber, and other rideshare apps—which are convenient and affordable options if you prefer not to drive.

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Will there be food and drinks at the welcome party?

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Yes! We’ll have delicious Italian appetizers and non-alcoholic drinks on us throughout the event. Alcoholic beverages will be available at the bar for purchase, so feel free to grab your favorite drink and join the fun!

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What is Bocce? Do I need to know how to play it?

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Bocce (pronounced BAH-chee) is a classic Italian lawn game where teams take turns rolling balls to get as close as possible to a smaller target ball called the pallino. It’s easy to learn, fun to play, and perfect for all ages and skill levels—no prior experience needed! We will have simple instructions available for those just learning and resident experts like Cecily's Papa Joe ready to give pro tips! For those who aren't quite into Bocce Ball, we will have other small games available like cards, dominoes, and a sip n' search board.

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Is Campo di Bocce ADA/mobility assistance friendly?

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Yes! Campo di Bocce is ADA-friendly, with accessible pathways, outdoor courts, and facilities. If you or a loved one (such as elderly guests, wheelchair users, or anyone needing mobility assistance) would like extra assistance, please let us know—we’re happy to help make sure everyone can comfortably join in the fun!

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WEDDING QUESTIONS:

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Wedding Ceremony, Wedding Reception, & Regale Winery & Vineyards FAQs:

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What is Regale Winery & Vineyards?

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Regale is a beautiful, Tuscan-inspired winery tucked into the hills of Los Gatos. With sweeping views of the Santa Cruz Mountains, lush gardens, and romantic courtyards, it’s the perfect blend of elegance and charm. We fell in love with its Italian villa feel—and we can’t wait to share it with you! For more information, check out their website: www.regalewine.com

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and dinner will be outdoors, followed by dancing indoors in the Cask Room. In case of inclement weather, we have a beautiful indoor space reserved. For your comfort, we’ll also have blankets available in the evening and parasols (umbrellas) during the ceremony to help with the sun.

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Is there a dress code? I don't know what to wear

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Our Wedding Ceremony & Reception at Regale Winery & Vineyards is Black Tie Optional | Tuscan Chic. Elegant gowns, mid-to-long cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, tuxedos, or nice suits. Floral and/or spring colors are encouraged but not required! Block heels, wedges, or dressy flats are recommended for the beautiful outdoor spaces.

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Will there be food & drinks?

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Yes! We’ll start with passed hors d’oeuvres during cocktail hour, followed by a formal, seated dinner catered by Le Papillon. Instead of a traditional wedding cake, we’ll be serving a variety of gourmet tray-passed desserts. Regale’s exclusive wines, beer, and non-alcoholic beverages will be flowing all evening long!

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What is Le Papillon?

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Le Papillon is a fine-dining restaurant in San Jose, known for its elegant, French-inspired cuisine and exceptional service. We’re thrilled to have their team catering our wedding. Every dish will be prepared on-site, and proprietor Mike Mashayekh will personally be there overseeing the experience and checking each plate to ensure it meets their incredible standards. For more information, check out their website: www.lepapillon.com

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What if I have a food allergy or dietary restriction?

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We’ve worked closely with Le Papillon to ensure our menu can accommodate common dietary needs. Please let us know any allergies or restrictions when you RSVP so we can make sure there’s something perfect for you!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! We’ll be serving Regale’s exclusive wines, beer, and a selection of non-alcoholic beverages throughout the evening. Please note that hard liquor and outside alcohol are not permitted on the property per venue policy. Cheers to celebrating safely and deliciously!

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Are children & teens allowed at the wedding?

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To allow all guests to fully relax and enjoy the evening, our wedding will be an adult-focused celebration. Children under the age of 2 are welcome, but otherwise the event will be 21+. We so appreciate your understanding—and we can’t wait to celebrate with the whole family at the Welcome Party, which will be kid-friendly and full of fun!

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Can I bring a date/plus-one?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with our closest friends and family, and are planning a very intimate wedding with a limited guest list. If your invitation includes a date/plus-one, they’re absolutely welcome! If not, we hope you understand that we’re keeping things small to stay within our space and guest count. Thank you for your love and support—it means the world to us!

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Is the venue ADA/mobility assistance friendly?

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Yes! Regale Winery is ADA-friendly, with accessible pathways and facilities. If you need any specific accommodations, please let us know—we’re happy to help make your experience comfortable.

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Can I drive to the venue?

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Regale Winery requires all guests (aside from those living in the Santa Cruz Mountains) to use the provided shuttle transportation for convenience and safety.

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Is there transportation to and from the venue?

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Yes! Shuttles will be provided to and from Regale Winery & Vineyards. Shuttle pick-up and drop-off will be based at the Toll House Hotel in downtown Los Gatos. Please see our Travel page for more information.

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Is there a smoking section/can I smoke at the venue?

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Regale Winery is a non-smoking property, and this includes vaping. We kindly ask all guests to refrain from smoking or vaping during the events. Thank you for understanding and helping us keep the space comfortable for everyone!

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Rehearsal Dinner FAQ's:

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The Rehearsal Dinner is a small, private gathering for immediate family and the wedding party. If you're invited, you’ll receive a separate invitation with all the details! Please reach out to Cecily & Austin privately with any questions. Email: mrmrsmilesi@gmail.com Cecily's Cell: (408) 603-0136

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I still have questions. Who do I contact?

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Feel free to reach out to Cecily & Austin directly via: Email: mrmrsmilesi@gmail.com Cecily's Cell: (408) 603-0136