Registry
Your presence is gift enough but if you insist on getting us something, travelling with 3 kids is expensive, there will be a card box at the wedding.
If you want to get a thing to wrap... the bride hears Instant pots and robot vacuums are where it is at! Also, if you know how to get Rosie, that is a dream!
Levi says we don't need "things" but that just isn't true. We need to replace old things that kind of work mostly. Here is a list of ideas for people that did not like the "we don't have a registry" answer.
We also have to replace 60's shag carpets in every bedroom, replace windows, tear down wall paper and paint, re-do our avocado colored bathroom, get a new fireplace insert, get a new dishwasher and appliances so gift cards to Lowe's are welcome!