FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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By July 1st! So we can save you a seat (and a drink).
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Are kids allowed?
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While we adore your little ones, this wedding weekend is reserved for adults only. Think of it as a well-deserved night off.
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Can I bring a date?
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If your invitation includes a plus-one, absolutely! We can’t wait to celebrate with both of you.
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Where should I stay?
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For a more immersive weekend experience, we recommend staying on-site at the Gilbertsville Farmhouse. (3 days / 2 nights: $850 per room) https://gilbertsvillefarmhouse.com/wedding-venue-with-lodging If you plan to stay on-site, please indicate this in your RSVP so our wedding coordinator may assist with your reservation. We have a limited number of on-site accommodations available for the weekend. To secure a spot, we recommend RSVPing early and confirming your booking with our wedding coordinator, as reservations will be handled on a first-come, first-served basis. Guests staying off-site may consider: Hampton Inn Oneonta 225 River St., Oneonta, NY 13820 www.oneonta.hamptoninn.com Code: AJW Off-site guests are warmly welcomed to join us on October 3, 2026, for the Welcome Hour through the Afterparty.
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What is Gilbertsville Farmhouse?
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Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a private estate and wedding venue set on over 100 acres in upstate New York. Designed for full weekend celebrations, it offers onsite lodging, curated experiences, and exclusive use of the property for an immersive, retreat-style experience. You can explore more here: www.gilbertsvillefarmhouse.com
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes, on-site parking is available! Kindly follow signage and directions upon arrival.
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Can I attend all weekend events?
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Guests staying at Gilbertsville Farmhouse are invited to enjoy the full weekend. Guests staying at The Hampton Inn Oneonta are invited to Saturday’s celebration only.
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Do I need to worry about food and drinks during the weekend?
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We’ve got you covered! For guests staying on-site, the couple covers all meals throughout the weekend. Guests staying off-site are warmly invited to join us on Saturday, October 3, 2026 from the Welcome Hour through the Afterparty. If you have any dietary restrictions, please let us know in your RSVP. Coffee/Tea will be available throughout the day, and coolers stocked with water, juice, and sodas will be placed around the property. You’re welcome to bring beer or your favorite drinks to add to the coolers and share with fellow guests. You’ll also find snacks in your welcome bags and s’mores by the bonfire in the evenings.
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What should I wear?
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Attire will vary by event. As many events take place outdoors on grass, we recommend comfortable footwear such as block heels, wedges, or flats. Cozy layers are encouraged for cooler evenings. October 2, 2026 Goat Yoga • Athletic Wear All-Black Soirée • Your best All-Black Cocktail Attire Welcome Party and Bonfire Glamping • Your All-Black Cocktail attire OR you can change into comfortable clothes Oct 3, 2026 Welcome Hour, Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, Reception Dinner • Fall Formal Colors except HUNTER GREEN, OLIVE GREEN, BEIGE/CREAM, and WHITE https://www.pinterest.com/ideas/colors-of-fall/900870497889/ Oct 4, 2026 Farewell Brunch • Comfortable clothes for your journey back home.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask for an unplugged ceremony, so we can share the moment together. Afterward, please feel free to take photos and celebrate with us.
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Will Luna be there?
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Of course! She just booked her room! You should too!
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Are we eating the goats after the Goat Yoga?
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No! They have names and they’re part of the guest list!
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What other animals will I see there?
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Chickens, Highland cows, donkeys, alpacas, and some very friendly dogs. And no, you can’t eat them either.
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Do you have a registry?
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Your presence, cash, check, or a gentle toast and tons of laughter for our happily ever after. via Cash/Check/Venmo/Zelle/Paypal Check: Arianna Tengco Venmo: @yannatengco Zelle: (917) 375 9573 Paypal: ariannatengco@gmail.com