Frequently Asked Questions
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May I bring a date?
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We kindly ask that only those whose names are listed on your invitation attend. Our venue has a limited capacity, and we want to celebrate closely with our nearest and dearest.
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Are children welcome?
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We love your little ones, but we’ve chosen to keep our celebration adults-only (21+). We’re hoping to create an intimate, relaxed, and joy-filled day for all in attendance. Thank you for understanding!
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What should I wear?
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Wedding Day Our wedding colors are blush and cream, and guests are welcome to draw inspiration from the palette with shades such as sand, khaki, champagne, blush, soft pink, sage green, dusty blue, and other light, muted tones. Think elevated island elegance: light, breathable fabrics, semi-formal to cocktail attire, and shoes comfortable enough for grass during the ceremony. Sunglasses are highly encouraged, as the ocean views at Merriman's are stunning but can be quite bright! Jereme's Birthday Sunset Sail No specific color palette is required. We recommend smart casual attire suitable for a catamaran cruise, along with comfortable, secure footwear. As we'll be out on the water, expect a little motion of the ocean—we highly advise against heels and shoes with slippery soles. The Afterglow Celebration The Afterglow is intended to be informal and relaxed.
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How do I respond to my invite?
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Please RSVP through our website by July 1, 2027 for the wedding and birthday dinner. Details to follow for the Long Island Afterglow party with an official RSVP being collected after our Hawaii wedding.
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How do I know if I am invited to the Maui wedding?
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Due to the intimate nature of our destination wedding, we are only able to accommodate a limited number of guests in Maui. Those invited to the wedding ceremony and reception will receive the details in their formal invitation. We are incredibly fortunate to be surrounded by so many people who have supported, encouraged, and celebrated us throughout our lives. Although we cannot include everyone in Maui, please know that your presence in our lives means so much to us, and we look forward to celebrating together in other ways.
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What if I have dietary restrictions?
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No worries! All of our events will have multiple food options, and meals will be prepared to order at the restaurants. Just let the staff know your dietary needs, and they’ll be happy to accommodate.
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Is there a registry?
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Your presence is truly the greatest gift. If you’d like to bless us further, we’ve created a honeymoon fund to help launch our first adventure as newlyweds—details can be found on the “Registry” page.
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What airport should I fly into?
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Please fly into Kahului Airport (OGG), which is the closest airport to our Maui wedding venues.
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What’s the weather like on Maui?
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Maui is warm and tropical year-round, with daytime temperatures usually in the mid-70s to mid-80s°F (24–30°C). Evenings and mornings can be cooler, so you’ll want a light jacket or sweater. And just know, Hawaii is known as the Rainbow State for a reason—expect light showers here and there, which usually pass quickly. We still recommend comfortable shoes, a hat, and sunscreen, and don’t forget your swimsuit if you plan to enjoy optional ocean activities!
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Will we be able to use our phones during the ceremony?
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To help everyone be fully present and to allow our photographers to capture the moment, we’ll be collecting phones and cameras prior to the ceremony. Don’t worry—you’ll get them back immediately afterward, and we’ll be sharing plenty of professional photos so no one misses a moment!
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Will a shuttle be provided for the wedding?
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No shuttle service will be provided, so we recommend renting a car to get around the island with ease. Another option would be to stay at one of the recommended hotels near the venue, but you would be missing out on a truly enriching experience of exploring Maui.
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Where should we eat on Maui? Any restaurant recommendations by area?
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Definitely! Maui has incredible food from casual local spots to destination-worthy restaurants. Here are some of our favorite picks broken down by region so you can eat well no matter where you explore: South Maui (Kīhei & Wailea) Monkeypod Kitchen – Our favorite date spot. Legendary mai tais and fresh island flavors. Lineage – Creative local cuisine with bold Filipino, Hawaiian & Asian influences. Kō Restaurant – Upscale dining honoring plantation-era recipes. Ululani’s Shave Ice – The best shave ice on Maui, hands down. West Maui (Lahaina, Kāʻanapali, Nāpili) Star Noodle – Modern Asian dishes, super shareable and delicious. Duke’s Beach House – Beachfront dining with island vibes and hula pie. Monkeypod Kāʻanapali – Same great food & craft cocktails, West Side edition. Gazebo Restaurant – Iconic breakfast with huge portions and ocean views. North Shore (Pāʻia & Haʻikū) Mama’s Fish House – Iconic and unforgettable. Book early—months early. Paia Fish Market – Fresh fish plates perfect after the beach. Cafe des Amis – Mediterranean + Indian cuisine with sweet & savory crepes. Upcountry (Makawao, Kula) Kula Bistro – Generous portions and comfort food with an Upcountry twist. Haliʻimaile General Store – A Maui classic with elevated island cuisine. La Provence – A charming French bakery and café in Kula, perfect for breakfast, pastries, or a leisurely brunch with sweeping Upcountry views. Central Maui (Kahului & Wailuku) Zippy’s – A local institution for plate lunches, saimin, and casual Hawaiian comfort food. Tin Roof – Chef Sheldon Simeon’s flavorful local-style bowls—simple, soulful, amazing. Tante’s Island Cuisine – Filipino-Hawaiian classics and hearty plates. Sam Sato’s – Home of famous dry mein and old-school local vibes. For more personalized recommendations or hidden local gems, don’t hesitate to reach out to Jereme or Regina before the wedding!
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Do I need to practice my hula before arriving?
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Only if you want to impress the locals—or Jereme! Otherwise, bring your aloha spirit and dance shoes.
