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What date should I RSVP by?What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by May 1, 2026. If you do not RSVP on time, we will assume that you’re unable to attend. We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative we provide our vendors with a final guest count within the time they have given us.

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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?

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We'd like to keep the guest list just to those who know us well. We ask that you only bring a guest if specified on your invitation.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?Am I allowed to bring my children?

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Although we love your children, this will be an adults only occasion. We hope you take this opportunity to enjoy a date night and we appreciate you making prior arrangements.

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Where are Jennifer and Markian registered?Where are Jennifer and Markian registered?

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We have created registries on Anthropologie, Amazon and Crate & Barrel. To find out registries, click on the registry tab of our website.

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What is the address for Saint Ambrose?What is the address for Saint Ambrose?

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The address is 5130 Wilson Ave., St. Louis, MO 63110 The entrance to both the church and the dedicated parking lot is on Marconi Ave.

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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We ask that all guests arrive by 1:15 pm to ensure a 1:30 pm ceremony start.

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What should I do between the ceremony and reception?What should I do between the ceremony and reception?

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Our recommendation is to grab a cold beer or cocktail across the street at Milo’s Bocce Garden or at Marconi Mercato. The reception begins at 5:30, so plenty of time to connect with friends and family that are traveling in for the weekend.

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What time does the reception start? Where do we park?What time does the reception start? Where do we park?

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The reception begins at 5:30 pm at the Spink Pavilion at the Missouri Botanical Garden. The address to the Garden is 4344 Shaw Blvd, St. Louis, MO 63110. Please park in the main visitor lot off of Shaw Blvd. Keep in mind the Garden is in the middle of a residential area, so traffic can be busy. Upon arrival, enter through the Jack C. Taylor Visitor Center and follow the signs to the reception.

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Can we visit the exhibit at the Garden during the reception?Can we visit the exhibit at the Garden during the reception?

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The Patterns in Nature: The Art of Hybycozo exhibit will be at the Garden from April to September. This is a paid exhibit and unfortunately our guests are unable to enjoy the exhibit during the reception unless you purchase a ticket. Parts of the exhibit are near the Spink Pavilion so you'll be able to enjoy the exhibit from afar.

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Do you have a theme for your wedding reception?Do you have a theme for your wedding reception?

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Our wedding reception will be a celebration of color, charm, and vintage island vibes — think Vintage Aloha. That means retro-inspired Hawaiian prints, 1950s/60s island style, breezy fabrics, and a touch of old-school glam. Think Elvis in Blue Hawaii, Tiki bar chic, or Golden Age Waikiki. Not sure what to wear? When in doubt, aim for colorful, fun, and relaxed — with a nostalgic twist.

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What type of food will be served at the reception?What type of food will be served at the reception?

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We’re throwing a Vintage Aloha Cocktail Party — and you're on the guest list for a night of vibrant style, tropical flair, and retro fun! Picture this: buffet-style hors d’oeuvres, a slice (or two) of wedding cake, and yes — the gelato cart might just make a sweet surprise appearance!

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Will there be an open bar?Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you - so get ready to party! For this reason, we encourage you to drink responsibly or take advantage of Uber or Lyft.