Wedding Party

Alissa Van Arnam

Maid of Honor

Alissa and Jen became friends their first year at Duke, lived together as seniors, and have maintained a great friendship for many more years. Alissa now lives in Georgia and works for Adventures in Missions as a World Race Squad Mentor.

Severn Patolo

Best Man

Graham and Sev met on the rugby team during Graham’s final semester at Bates. Needing someone to provide shade while on the field for particularly sunny games Graham quickly befriended Sev and their friendship has only grown. Sev currently lives in Hawaii, doing customer relations and not swimming in the ocean.

Ashley Buerger

Bridesmaid

Ashley was the administrator at Jen's very first physical therapy job in Colorado and they quickly became friends from there. Ashley still works for the PT clinic but devotes as much time as possible to her home baking business Afternoon Delight Bakery. She is making the desserts for our wedding too!

Jay Engstrom

Groomsman

Jay and Graham met early on in Graham's time in Colorado. Their friendship really began during a mountain biking trip to Moab, Utah when Jay said "Hey...you want to be friends?" In the years that followed their friendship was cemented over more trips to Moab and many days skiing in Aspen (Jay even dragged Graham up the Highlands Bowl for his first time.) Always generous. Jay let Graham live in his back shed for other a month.

Allycia Jones

Bridesmaid

Jen and Allycia became friends over weekends in Martha's Vineyard and Vermont with the Jones Family. She is Graham's older sister. Allycia lives in Boston and works there in the design field.

Jordan Kurt-Mason

Groomsman

Jordan is Graham’s cousin. Having known each other from childhood, their relationship was solidified when Graham moved from Massachusetts into the shed in Jordan’s backyard in Colorado. Jordan now lives in Wyoming with his wife and two twins (flower girls!), where he teaches high school math and coaches the soccer team.

Kristen Smith

Bridesmaid

Jen and Kristen have known each other since kindergarten, a lifelong friendship spanning almost 30 years! Kristen lives in Danvers, MA and works as a job coach for adults with disabilities. She is also a successful ultra runner.

Christopher Leary

Groomsman

Graham and Chris have gotten to know each other over the last couple of years over visits and multiple trips to Legal Sea Food. Chris is Jen’s younger brother. Chris lives in Baltimore where he works for a financial management company.

Megan Swanson

Bridesmaid

Megan and Jen became friends in middle/high school, during which they both played tennis and the clarinet. They have since gone to A LOT of Red Sox games together! Megan lives in Boston and works there as a dentist.

Danna Wilson

Bridesmaid

Jen and Danna met at Sunday River over one whirlwind winter when Jen was a ski bum following physical therapy school but their friendship has stood the test of time. Danna continues to live in Maine and works at a dental office as well as in interior design.

Emersyn Diminico

Junior Bridesmaid

Colby Diminico

Ring Bearer

Fiona Raphael

Flower Girl

Wesley Raphael

Ring Bearer

Reine Kurt-Mason

Flower Girl

Senja Kurt-Mason

Flower Girl