FAQs

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What should I wear?

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We are requesting formal attire, encouraging dresses or evening gowns in sunset colors (pinks, oranges, yellows, etc.) and light or bright colored suits (beige, tan, bright or light greens, bright or light blue, etc.). Please avoid dark-colored attire as well as white, cream, or ivory dresses or suits.

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When do I RSVP?

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We will start accepting RSVP responses when formal invitations go out around December. Once you receive your formal invitation, please RSVP by March 1.

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Do I really need to RSVP?

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Yes! We need formal responses from everyone, even if you have already told us you’re planning to attend. This is so that our wedding planner can capture your dietary restrictions, accommodation needs, etc.

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I don’t see the RSVP page!

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If you are not seeing the RSVP page on the wedding website, that likely means that you are early or late to the RSVP party. The RSVP page will open once formal invitations go out around December and will close after the RSVP deadline on March 1. If you are within this window, please email our planner at planning@gardeniawed.com to see if maybe there is an error with the website. If you are looking before the open date, just check back after you receive your formal invitation. If you are looking after the close date, please email our planner at planning@gardeniawed.com to see if it would be possible to squeeze you in.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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When you go to the RSVP page online, it will note whether or not we were able to allot a plus one. We are limiting additional guests to ensure we are celebrating with our closest friends and family. We also have to consider the venue's allowed capacity. If there is someone you would really like to bring, please reach out to us far in advance from the wedding date. There will not be extra seating for unexpected guests.

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The guest on my invite can't come, can I bring someone else instead?

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Please check with us first, especially if we don’t personally know the guest you would be bringing instead.

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Are children allowed?

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We have decided to keep the wedding adult-only. We encourage parents to let loose and have fun!

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I originally declined, but now I’m available! Can I still come?

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That’s so great! If the RSVP page is still live on the website, you can simply change your RSVP response there. If the RSVP page is closed, please email our wedding planner at planning@gardeniawed.com to confirm if the additional seat can still be added.

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What if I can no longer attend?

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We totally understand that life happens, but if you need to cancel, we kindly ask that you email our wedding planner at planning@gardeniawed.com instead of texting us directly. As the big day gets closer, we’ll be juggling a lot, and receiving last-minute texts can feel a little overwhelming. Our planner will make sure everything gets updated on the backend. Feel free to reach out to us after the wedding—we’d still love to hear from you then!

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Where is the wedding?

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The ceremony and reception will be hosted at the Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale located at 10600 E. Crescent Moon Drive, Scottsdale, Arizona 85262.

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What time should I arrive?

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Plan to arrive between 4:45-5:00pm. Please do not arrive extremely early (45+ minutes). Arriving significantly early will cause us to be hidden away sooner than planned, shortening our time for any pre-ceremony photos.

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How is parking?

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Complimentary self-parking is available at the venue. Valet parking is also available at $20 per vehicle or $40 per vehicle if staying overnight.

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What’s the bar situation?

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We are happy to provide an open bar! We do recommend bringing some cash to tip the bartender as well as your ID just in case.

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Can I bring my own alcohol?

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No! We will be charged a fine if any outside alcohol is brought to the venue.

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Is smoking allowed?

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Cigar smoking only is allowed after 9pm outside. No other smoking is permitted at the venue including vapes, marijuana, and cigarettes.

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Is there a hotel block?

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There is not a formal room block to allow everyone the freedom to choose the hotel option that best suits you. Various recommendations can be found on the "travel" page of the wedding website.

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Where is your wedding registry?

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Our registry information can be found on the “registry” page of the wedding website. Because we will be traveling, we kindly ask that physical gifts, aside from cards, not be brought to the wedding.

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Can I take pictures during the wedding?

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Please do not take photos or use your phone during the ceremony. We have a professional photographer who will be capturing all of the beautiful moments, and a cell phone is a very unsightly photobomb. Please also do not bring any sort of professional camera or block the photographer. Although cellphone photos are welcome during reception, we kindly ask that you not post photos of us on social media until after we have shared ours.

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Can I "Irish Goodbye"?

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Yes! We’d love to hug each and every one of you goodbye—but if we’re on the dance floor or caught in the chaos of the moment, feel free to quietly slip out without saying goodbye. We promise we won’t take it personally, and we’ll catch up after the wedding!

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I have more questions!

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Please email our wedding planner at planning@gardeniawed.com. Please also try to avoid texting us questions the week of the wedding. Feel free to also call or text our planner at 602-529-3430 the week of the wedding.