Dressy casual. It's an outdoor wedding, mostly on grass, so dress however you would feel most comfortable.
Fresno is the closest airport to the venue, but depending on where you are flying in from, San Jose, San Francisco, or Oakland often have more affordable flights and are all about 2 hours from Merced.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Unless your invitation specifies, we prefer it to be adults only.
No. However, there are many people traveling out to the venue; we suggest carpooling!
If you would like to give a gift, and would like to have it shipped directly to the couple’s new home, you can have it sent directly to: 2000 4th St S Apt 3, Arlington VA 22204 Thank you!!