FAQs
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Will The Wedding Be Livestreamed?
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Yes! If you are unable to attend, we will be livestreaming the wedding for you to celebrate with us virtually. Please join us at the link below: https://rutgers.zoom.us/j/99482871725?pwd=eUw0T1FMa3BXUFRleit3Y0huUEtZdz09 Meeting ID: 994 8287 1725 Password: Wedding Join By Phone +1 301 715 8592 US (Washington DC) +1 309 205 3325 US +1 312 626 6799 US (Chicago) +1 646 558 8656 US (New York) +1 646 931 3860 US +1 386 347 5053 US +1 564 217 2000 US +1 669 444 9171 US +1 669 900 9128 US (San Jose) +1 719 359 4580 US +1 253 215 8782 US (Tacoma) +1 346 248 7799 US (Houston) +1 360 209 5623 US Meeting ID: 994 8287 1725 Find your local number: https://rutgers.zoom.us/u/aq7wmWtLv Join by Skype for Business https://rutgers.zoom.us/skype/99482871725
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I've Never Been To A Sikh Wedding! What Should I Expect?
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The Sikh marriage ceremony is called the Anand Karaj (ceremony of bliss) and it takes place in the Gurdwara (Sikh place of worship) in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, the eternal Guru and Sikh sacred scripture. When everyone makes their way inside the gurdwara, the bride and groom sit on the floor next to each other in front of Guru Granth Sahib. The Ragis, or Sikh musicians, begin to recite and sing each verse of the laavan (marriage prayer), signifying the couple to walk around Guru Granth Sahib four times. This practice signifies the importance of a Guru-centered life, as well as a commitment to the Sikh way of life and to working together to help each other realize the Divine Presence. The laavan is the most crucial part of the ceremony that unites the couple together through four verses of scripture and religious messaging. It’s also important because laava means to break away or enter a new stage in life.
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What To Do When You Enter The Gurdwara?
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Please visit the following link for details on a Guide to Visiting a Gurdwara: sikhcoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/visiting-gurdwara.pdf
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Is There A Dress Code For The Anand Karaj?
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For the Anand Karaj (Wedding), the dress code is Semi-Formal / Traditional Attire. Please note that everyone will be seated on the ground for the entirety of the ceremony, so you want to be comfortable and prepared to sit for some time. We recommend attendees wear pants or long dresses if you are not wearing traditional attire. If you are unable to sit on the floor due to a disability, you may sit on the chairs located towards the back of the hall. Also note that the wedding ceremony will take place in a Gurdwara (Sikh place of worship). You will be required to remove your shoes in the shoe room located on the right once you enter the Gurdwara, before proceeding into the other main halls. You will also be required to cover your head while inside the Gurdwara. This may be done with a scarf or a bandana. We will have extra bandanas available for anyone who would like to use one! To learn more about Sikh weddings, visit: https://www.brides.com/sikh-wedding-traditions-5189031
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What Kind Of Food And Drink Will Be Served?
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At the wedding ceremony, there will be breakfast prior to the ceremony, and langar (lunch), served after the ceremony. We will not be serving alcohol at our events but will have a selection of mocktails for you to enjoy!
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What Is A Sangeet?
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Prior to the actual wedding, there's a gathering called the Sangeet, where family comes together to sing, dance, and revel in the joy of the upcoming union. Fittingly, sangeet directly translates to "sung together." Typically at sangeets, family members and friends do dance performances in celebration, apply henna to their hands, and celebrate the couple. For our Sangeet, the dress code is Semi-Formal / Traditional Attire.
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Will There Be Parking At Our Venues?
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Yes, all of our venues have free parking.
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How Do We Tag Photos On Social Media?
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#JasDaMan
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What Kind Of Covid Protocols Should Be Followed?
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The health and safety of our guests is our top priority. Due to health issues regarding close family members during this time of COVID-19, we ask that you please adhere to the following safety guidelines before our wedding: • Please be fully vaccinated prior to the wedding. Furthermore, prepare to send proof of a negative PCR result up to 72 hours prior OR a negative rapid antigen result up to 24 hours prior to the first wedding event you will be attending. Please send a copy of your negative test result to jasleenwedsmanveer@gmail.com. We apologize in advance for any inconvenience this may cause, as we respectfully remind you that no guest will be admitted to our celebration without this information. • Masks are encouraged. Extra masks will be available for guests at our venues. If you are experiencing COVID symptoms, or had direct exposure to someone who tested positive for COVID, we respectfully ask that you celebrate with us virtually. We look forward to celebrating safely with you!
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How Can I Book A Covid PCR/Rapid Test?
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If you are looking to get tested in NY, you can find a testing location near you at https://coronavirus.health.ny.gov/find-test-site-near-you. If you are looking to get tested in NJ, you can find a testing location near you at https://covid19.nj.gov/pages/testing#test-sites. On either site, simply input your zip code to access a list of sites near you. Each site listed will inform you whether they offer non-rapid and/or rapid testing, and whether it is free diagnostic testing. They will also typically list the amount of time it takes to receive results. Some locations require an appointment and some locations are walk-up only. Be sure to plan your visit accordingly! If you are in NYC, all NYC Health + Hospitals locations offer free testing (https://www.nychealthandhospitals.org/test-and-trace/testing/). If you are in NJ, you can access free testing at: https://covid19.nj.gov/faqs/nj-information/testing-and-treatment/where-can-i-get-free-public-covid-19-testing-or-treatment
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Do You Have A Wedding Registry?
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We do! Please visit our registry here: https://www.amazon.com/wedding/share/jasdaman