October 10, 2020
San Francisco, California
#misfitsfairytale
Jared and Rene
A Note to Our Guests
As words collide on both sides of the aisle we ask a favor of all our guests; that all those in attendance may feel welcome and comfortabe.
Please:
-Respect preferred pronouns of guests, and offer yours if asked. We would love for asking preferred pronouns to be as normal as asking someone's name.
-Respect our family, not just "Jared and Rene". We are polyamorous. Getting married does not negate our other relationships.
-Let all guests be comfortable in what they are wearing, no matter gender identity or appearance. Male or female presenting does not determine whether a guest is in a suit or dress.
-Be kind and respectful to one another. No jokes at the expenses of others. No comments just to harm.
-Remember that multiple worlds are coming together with different world-views. If your view is not that of another guest's that is perfectly okay. Please allow all guests to feel safe and welcome.
Thank you for the respect, the love, and the acceptance
Jared (he/him) & Rene (they/them)
Giggling at Fairyland. Photo by Richard Jarvis Photography
Snapped by the bride's mom right after they got engaged. October 18 2018 at the Museum of Modern Art in NYC in front of Monet's waterlilies
Dickens Faire with almost all of the family. Just missing James!
From Jared's birthday trip to Santa Cruz. The only one missing from this one is our batcat David
For all the days along the way
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