Astoria, NY, 2016: Yes, we went on a tinder date! John says there wasn't much chemistry and Janina went on too many bad dates to care anymore about being ghosted. Brooklyn, NY, 2018: L-Train Brass Band and Hungry March Band were playing a HONK! gig. John wasn't there and for some reason (too many cocktails!?) Janina felt extra confident and started chatting up Mush1…. "You know a couple years ago I went on a date with one of your trumpet players but he ghosted me, can you believe that?!" Mush1 knew exactly who she was talking about and called John the very next morning: "Dude, what's wrong with you? There was that brazilian beauty, her last name is Okra!" Early in the morning as Janina was commuting to Manhattan, reminiscing about last nights events and researching (stalking?) HMB on her phone, she received a message from John: "I'm sorry I didn't get back to you earlier, how you been?"