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June 15, 2024
Eaton Rapids, MI

Mary & James

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The Wedding Website of Mary Farmer and James VanAntwerp
If you have any questions or concerns, please reach out to us! We want to be able to help you resolve your issue. Our wedding email is : wedding.mary.james@gmail.com If your concern is URGENT, you can call/text us: 616 426 1656
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Do I need to RSVP?

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Yes! Please complete your RSVP no later than May 10th by filling out the form on our website.

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Are the ceremony and reception at the same place?

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Yes! The ceremony and the reception will both be at the Northfork Estate! The ceremony will begin at 4:00 (with gates opening for the venue at 3:30), followed by a cocktail hour and dinner.

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What do I do if there is an issue with my RSVP?

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If you run into an issue while RSVP-ing, contact us via the information provided above to get it sorted out!

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Are children welcome?

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Yes! We would love for you to bring your children if you so choose. Make sure to RSVP for them so that we can ensure there is a kid's meal (children under 12) and a seat ready for them! Keep in mind that childcare will not be provided :) Please reach out to us via the information provided above if you have any further questions!

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What is the dress code?

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Please come dressed in semi-formal or cocktail attire. For the ladies out there, think full-length to knee-length dresses. Guys, you can't go wrong with a suit and tie (plus or minus the jacket). Make sure to bring your dancing shoes! In general, try to stay away from wearing all white ;) Keep in mind that the ceremony will be outdoors and the venue (though well-ventilated) will not be air-conditioned. There will be large fans and plenty of shade - but it will still be June, so you should plan for warm weather.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Our caterer, Lucia, is eager to accommodate food allergies and will be preparing a plated meal for all those with specific needs. Please indicate your allergies on your RSVP so that we can be sure to provide a meal that will meet your needs.

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Will there be alcohol provided?

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Yes, we will be providing an open bar. Please drink responsibly and plan to be safe to drive home by 10:00 pm. * No one under the age of 21 will be allowed to consume alcohol, so make sure you bring your ID with you!

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When should I arrive?

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Our venue will open to guests half an hour before our ceremony starts at 4. Feel free to arrive early to line up on the road outside the gate, but you cannot enter the venue until the gates are opened at 3:30 pm. Plenty of parking will be available, with transport to the door from the parking lot for those who need it.

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Can I bring my pet?

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No, animals are not permitted on the Northfork Estate's property.

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