Maid of Honor
Fun fact- I’ve known Kat since the day I was born! She was 7 years old and right there in the hospital room. She has been the best big sister ever since. We have been through so much together and I am so excited to stand by her side as she marries Jake!
Best Man
Jake and I met through a mutual connection (our parents) about 30 years ago and have been best friends ever since. I’ve always been able to count on him to listen to blink 182’s deep cuts and watch the Bears not score any points, and over the last few years, have learned I can now count on Kat for these same things. I’m excited to officially welcome her into the family and am honored to be part of their day as Jakes best man.
Bridesmaid
I have been lucky to call Katherine my best friend since elementary school! I can always count on her calming me down from reading too much "WebMD," bonding over our love for true crime, and always saying yes to wine! I couldn’t be more excited to be by her side as she marries her best friend and perfect match!!
Groomsman
When Jake and I tell people we are cousins, they are often shocked as many people think we are just really close friends…but both can be true! Jake and I were born in the same year, went to the same college and both share an unhealthy love of punk rock music. I’m so happy to be apart of this special day and see Kat officially become his #1 punk rock companion
Bridesmaid
I met Kat at the University of Arizona during my senior year at a mutual friend’s house. We got to talking about our love of the TV show Friends, a cappella concerts, and fine wine, and she’s been my best friend ever since! About two weeks after they met, I was with Kat when her new crush Jake called to say hi. I grilled him with some tough questions about his intentions (all of which he passed with flying colors!) and noticed that when they talked, Kat looked happier than ever before. I knew right then that she had found her lobster, and I can’t wait to be a part of their special day!
Groomsman
I know Jake because of his Fiancé, my older sister, Katherine Werner. I have known Jake since Katherine and him started dating almost 5 years ago. Over the years, we have shared interests in video games, sports, whiskey, and music. I am very excited to finally have a brother!
Bridesmaid
Kat and I met in 8th grade and became fast friends! We share a love of great food, punk music, Disney, and golden retrievers. We have been through a lot together. Watching Kat and Jake’s relationship grow has been amazing. She truly lights up whenever he comes into a room and it is clear he is her person. I am so honored to be a part of their wedding day!
Groomsman
Jake and I met freshman year of high school and bonded over our shared interest in making the most beautiful music this world has ever seen. From Nothing Lasts to Second Best to Call Me Capone, we’ve grown from scrawny skinny jean boys into semi function adults together. We still play in a band together to this day. I am honored to a part of Jake and Kat's wedding day.
Bridesmaid
Kat and I have been best friends since we were the new kids at Butterfield in 2nd grade. I love her more than we both love Chicago sports and it has been so fun to watch her and Jake fall in love. We may no longer be able to ‘throw our hands up’ to being independent women (she better bust out the talent show moves at the wedding), but I am so happy that Kat and Jake found their forever person and cannot be happier for them! So honored to be part of their special day.
Groomsman
I’ve had the pleasure of being friends with both Kat and Jake for over 10 years now and I love seeing these two together! I first met Kat when I moved to Libertyville in middle school. Jake and I have been friends ever since we lived next door to each other in Rienow Hall freshman year at Iowa and then he got me to join SigEp. We’ve been causing trouble together for 13 years now.
Bridesmaid
Kat and I met as bright-eyed freshmen rushing sororities at The UofA. She complimented my (now looking back, absolutely hideous) shiny silver sandals and we immediately became friends! We lived together the remaining years of college, making memories that will last our lifetime. As we've grown up and moved into new chapters of our lives, our friendship has only grown stronger. As Kat starts another new chapter of her life with Jake, her best friend, soulmate and cat daddy, I truly could not be happier for them. I love their love and I am so honored to be a part of their beautiful day.
Groomsman
Jake and I met in our gifted English class in middle school. We very quickly became best friends. Our absurd humor both entertained and annoyed several teachers and classmates whose groans can still be heard to this day. I can't wait to be a part of Jake and Kat's day!
Bridesmaid
Kat and I have been friends since freshman year of college and were roommates senior year. We bonded over our mutual love of family guy and AGC, and we have been best friends ever since! I am so honored to be part of her and Jake's big day!
Groomsman
Jacob and I have gotten up to a lot of shenanigans over the years. We met in middle school, becoming buddies on the wrestling mat. In high school, we became good friends and started our streak for shenanigans, including the time I accidentally broke his arm at a bonfire and a few months later my own leg in a mosh pit while his band laid down a gnarly break down. While living in Chicago he has become one of my closest friends, continuing our trend of doing fun (and dumb) things. It’s been a blast becoming close with Kat over the years, and I am super happy to celebrate with them on their big day!
Bridesmaid
Jake and I are cousins and have always been close growing up. Not only being in the same city, but also living in the same building as the two of them for 2.5 years, gave me the chance to get to know and become great friends with Kat as well. I love them both so much and am so honored to be part of their special day!
Groomsman
I’m fortunate enough to know both the bride and the groom independently! Kat and I grew up in the same neighborhood in Libertyville and our families are long time friends. I was pretty surprised when Jake, who I met and became close friends with in college, asked me if I knew Kat and told me they were dating. Small world!
Usher
Katherine and I have known each other since birth. Our moms met when they were pregnant with us in California and we were born just 11 days apart! We have more than 30 years of memories together. We’ve helped each other throughout our entire lives, have remained best friends, and even lived together for 5 years! I often refer to her as my cousin so that people understand more simply when I try to explain our close relationship. I’m so happy to have gotten the chance to get close with Jake when he came into her life. Jake is a stand up guy and then some. I love you both and couldn’t be happier for you!
Usher
Usher
Jake and I have the same last name, and I'm told this is not a coincidence. Besides being cousins, Jake and I were born just a month apart and have been close ever since: from going to the same summer camp to working the same summer job in college! Jake has always been someone I can count on and I'm so happy he and Kat found each other!