FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by the date listed on your invitation.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence at our wedding is the only gift we need! However, if you insist on getting us a gift, you can read more about our registry here: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jaidenandrobert/registry

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Doors will open for guests at 5:00pm. The ceremony will start promptly at 5:30pm.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal. This means that tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Information about plus-ones are included in each person's RSVP page.

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Are kids welcome?

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We are only able to accommodate children of close family, who are named on the invitation. Thank you for your understanding.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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There are several hotels within walking distance or a short drive distance to the venue. You can find the closest options here: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jaidenandrobert/travel If none of these hotels are to your liking, feel free to expand your search! Pittsburgh has a lot of great spots to stay that are a close drive to the venue.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Please let us know about any important food allergies when you RSVP. If you already RSVP'd and forgot to let us know about an allergy feel free to send us an email (butler.sellers.26@gmail.com) and we will be sure to let our caterer know.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Guests may use available public parking spaces in front of Phipps on Schenley Drive. Public parking may also be available in the center of Schenley Drive.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Pittsburgh has Uber / Lyft options available at all hours of the day!

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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We would love to see all of our guests at our Welcome Event on Friday September 4th at Abstract Realm Brewing Company between 6 and 10pm. See here for more information about the Welcome Event: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jaidenandrobert/event

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What is there to do in Pittsburgh?

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Pittsburgh is fun town for everyone! See some of our recommendations on things to do here: https://www.zola.com/wedding/jaidenandrobert/poi

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Can I bring my own alcohol to the wedding?

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Please DO NOT bring your own alcohol to the wedding. If any of our guests are found to have alcohol on them we could face a hefty fine from the venue. Don't worry though, we want our guests to have a great time and will be treating you to an open bar!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! You will have your pick of a selection of liquor, wine, and beer. We recommend treating yourself to one of our 3 signature cocktails named after each of our fur-babies Lola, Mad Max, and Furiosa.

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Can I pick flowers or plants from the garden?

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Please do not pick plants or flowers from the outdoor garden at Phipps.

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Can I smoke?

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Phipps is a smoke free facility; smoking is not permitted in any of the buildings, tents or grounds.

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What color are the wedding parties wearing? I'm worried I will accidentally match!

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The bridesmaids will wear a dusty sage green and the groomsmen will wear blue suits.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and reception will be outdoors in the Rose Garden at Phipps Conservatory and Botanical Gardens. The ceremony will be on the grass and the reception will be on concrete. In the event of extremely warm weather, we will ensure that you have access to fans, parasols, and cooling stations. In the event of rainy weather the ceremony and reception will take place under a covered tent in the Rose Garden on the cement walkway.

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Are ICE agents active in Pittsburgh?

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ICE agents are actively carrying out their operations in Pittsburgh. If you do not feel comfortable traveling to Pittsburgh due to ICE's active presence please know that we will not hold it against you! Please take any and all actions you must to keep yourself and your family safe. If you do choose to travel to Pittsburgh, you can find resources on how to stay safe here: 1) https://www.aclupa.org/know-your-rights/know-your-rights-police-and-immigration-agents/ 2) https://www.pa.gov/content/dam/copapwp-pagov/en/governor/documents/rights/know-your-rights-individuals.pdf