When RSVP, if "guest" is listed under your name, then yes, if not, we would prefer just you.
We love your kids- so yes, please bring them with you. Unless you want a date night (or night off), then leave them at home.
We request that RSVP's are in by August 7- a month in advance. This is a courteousy to all who are planning the wedding.
Casual, please. We want everyone to be comfortable, especialy with an outside venue. So lose the tight collars and stiletos for a teeshirt and Burks.